dj ben2
Senior Don Juan
who can giv me a good altrnative for upper back besides rows cheers
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You have to do rows for back thickness and as an antagonist to benching.dj ben2 said:who can giv me a good altrnative for upper back besides rows cheers
seated rows are good, too.dj ben2 said:who can giv me a good altrnative for upper back besides rows cheers
Yeah. The carry over is surprisingly low.wolf116 said:If you deadlift as often as you bench you will be balanced just fine.
Rows are a great movement though and shouldn't be substituted indefinetly.
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well thats pretty normal, haven't met anyone born knowing how to do them.dj ben2 said:o simply h8 seated rows so much and i dont know how to do db or bb rows
barbell row techniquedj ben2 said:o simply h8 seated rows so much and i dont know how to do db or bb rows
Oh, ****. That's what I've been doing wrong... I've been working out in pants.stronglifts said:barbell row technique
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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there are none.who can giv me a good altrnative for upper back besides rows cheers
Yea, ok !! someone lied to you.If you deadlift as often as you bench you will be balanced just fine.