"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alright, how do I get this girl in bed?

DrPhysique

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Alright, I've known this chick since high-school. Over the summer I started jamming with her and two other guys. Two months ago, I told her we should date. She said she still wants to jam together and talk about music, but she wasn't ready to date me (or wtv). Turns out she invites me to a bar to listen to a musician, but I arrive there and she's with a guy. Turns out they're kind of together, but not really. They aren't in a relationship on fb.

Anyways, I think she might be at a rocky point in their 'relationship'. She also found out that I hooked up with a chick at a party last friday and that I've basically become alpha as **** since the time I asked her out.

We've been recording songs for 2 days now and tomorrow we are recording again. She also asked me to go to the gym with her tomorrow.

It'll just be me and her tomorrow, how do I take advantage of this?

PS: My jam room is super close to my bed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Update: she just told me I have to bring her home so she can shower. Wow...
 

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you need to grab your balls and go in for the kiss. stop talkin cr@p about wanting to date her. you dont verbalize your intentions with a woman. make your actions speak.
 

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Tiguere said:
you need to grab your balls and go in for the kiss. stop talkin cr@p about wanting to date her. you dont verbalize your intentions with a woman. make your actions speak.
Yeah, but that was when I was an afc. I wouldn't do that sort of thing anymore because shortly after this happened, I started learning about pua's and how it all works.

Honestly, I'm thinking of just turning her into a **** buddy now.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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