"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alright, how do I get this girl in bed?

DrPhysique

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Alright, I've known this chick since high-school. Over the summer I started jamming with her and two other guys. Two months ago, I told her we should date. She said she still wants to jam together and talk about music, but she wasn't ready to date me (or wtv). Turns out she invites me to a bar to listen to a musician, but I arrive there and she's with a guy. Turns out they're kind of together, but not really. They aren't in a relationship on fb.

Anyways, I think she might be at a rocky point in their 'relationship'. She also found out that I hooked up with a chick at a party last friday and that I've basically become alpha as **** since the time I asked her out.

We've been recording songs for 2 days now and tomorrow we are recording again. She also asked me to go to the gym with her tomorrow.

It'll just be me and her tomorrow, how do I take advantage of this?

PS: My jam room is super close to my bed.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Update: she just told me I have to bring her home so she can shower. Wow...
 

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you need to grab your balls and go in for the kiss. stop talkin cr@p about wanting to date her. you dont verbalize your intentions with a woman. make your actions speak.
 

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Tiguere said:
you need to grab your balls and go in for the kiss. stop talkin cr@p about wanting to date her. you dont verbalize your intentions with a woman. make your actions speak.
Yeah, but that was when I was an afc. I wouldn't do that sort of thing anymore because shortly after this happened, I started learning about pua's and how it all works.

Honestly, I'm thinking of just turning her into a **** buddy now.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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