"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alright, how do I get this girl in bed?

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Alright, I've known this chick since high-school. Over the summer I started jamming with her and two other guys. Two months ago, I told her we should date. She said she still wants to jam together and talk about music, but she wasn't ready to date me (or wtv). Turns out she invites me to a bar to listen to a musician, but I arrive there and she's with a guy. Turns out they're kind of together, but not really. They aren't in a relationship on fb.

Anyways, I think she might be at a rocky point in their 'relationship'. She also found out that I hooked up with a chick at a party last friday and that I've basically become alpha as **** since the time I asked her out.

We've been recording songs for 2 days now and tomorrow we are recording again. She also asked me to go to the gym with her tomorrow.

It'll just be me and her tomorrow, how do I take advantage of this?

PS: My jam room is super close to my bed.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Update: she just told me I have to bring her home so she can shower. Wow...
 
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you need to grab your balls and go in for the kiss. stop talkin cr@p about wanting to date her. you dont verbalize your intentions with a woman. make your actions speak.
 
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Tiguere said:
you need to grab your balls and go in for the kiss. stop talkin cr@p about wanting to date her. you dont verbalize your intentions with a woman. make your actions speak.
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Yeah, but that was when I was an afc. I wouldn't do that sort of thing anymore because shortly after this happened, I started learning about pua's and how it all works.

Honestly, I'm thinking of just turning her into a **** buddy now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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