"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alright, how do I get this girl in bed?

DrPhysique

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Alright, I've known this chick since high-school. Over the summer I started jamming with her and two other guys. Two months ago, I told her we should date. She said she still wants to jam together and talk about music, but she wasn't ready to date me (or wtv). Turns out she invites me to a bar to listen to a musician, but I arrive there and she's with a guy. Turns out they're kind of together, but not really. They aren't in a relationship on fb.

Anyways, I think she might be at a rocky point in their 'relationship'. She also found out that I hooked up with a chick at a party last friday and that I've basically become alpha as **** since the time I asked her out.

We've been recording songs for 2 days now and tomorrow we are recording again. She also asked me to go to the gym with her tomorrow.

It'll just be me and her tomorrow, how do I take advantage of this?

PS: My jam room is super close to my bed.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Update: she just told me I have to bring her home so she can shower. Wow...
 

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you need to grab your balls and go in for the kiss. stop talkin cr@p about wanting to date her. you dont verbalize your intentions with a woman. make your actions speak.
 

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Tiguere said:
you need to grab your balls and go in for the kiss. stop talkin cr@p about wanting to date her. you dont verbalize your intentions with a woman. make your actions speak.
Yeah, but that was when I was an afc. I wouldn't do that sort of thing anymore because shortly after this happened, I started learning about pua's and how it all works.

Honestly, I'm thinking of just turning her into a **** buddy now.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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