"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Almost 1 Month of being together with my GF, What should I?

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Do you celebrate the 2nd month of school? Getting a new game? Didn't think so.
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2nd month of school... of course not. Now, as for the game, it depends how good it is....:p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Fist_of_Fury
2nd month of school... of course not. Now, as for the game, it depends how good it is....:p
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Well yeah...Something like San Andreas deserves a holy grail to it. But something as lame as DDR doesn't. ;) :p :D

*Note: I actually have gotten addicted a bit to DDR, I was just making a joke to my girl if you guys don't get it. She loves that game almost as much as she loves me...I think.*
 
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"you know i like you as much as i love ddr"
 
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Alright If on Christmas we exchange present. She give me a huge box thats probably worth $20 inside, and I give her a card? Thats gonna be so awkward. Dont cha think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by aznxboi
Alright If on Christmas we exchange present. She give me a huge box thats probably worth $20 inside, and I give her a card? Thats gonna be so awkward. Dont cha think?
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Not really. It's only awkward if you MAKE it awkward. I mean, holidays come and go...If most girls had it their way, you would have to give them a gift EVERYDAY!
 
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I can see how it would make you feel kinda awkward. But if it'll make you feel better [read:less awkward] get her something little. Like a stuffed animal or someting like that.

"If most girls had it their way, you would have to give them a gift EVERYDAY!"....not quite...you'd be giving several gifts a day...:D
 
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When me and my boyfriend, (we've been together just over a year now) had our little one month of being together, it was right around christmas so he gave me a christmas card. and said something like, "i cant wait to get to know you better and see where this goes". Nothing sappy or deeply meaningful because we still didnt know each other all that well.

Just get her a card and write something nice in it. I still have the card he gave me.

And for 6 months, do something they enjoy but not too big. Like, i too my boyfriend to a Padres game (his favorite team) and he took me to my favorite resteraunt. And since my birthday was around the same time, he got me a nice cross necklace.

Now that its been a year we havent seen each other so i dont know what he got me and i'm still working on his gift.
 
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