"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Almost 1 Month of being together with my GF, What should I?

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Do you celebrate the 2nd month of school? Getting a new game? Didn't think so.
2nd month of school... of course not. Now, as for the game, it depends how good it is....:p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Fist_of_Fury
2nd month of school... of course not. Now, as for the game, it depends how good it is....:p
Well yeah...Something like San Andreas deserves a holy grail to it. But something as lame as DDR doesn't. ;) :p :D

*Note: I actually have gotten addicted a bit to DDR, I was just making a joke to my girl if you guys don't get it. She loves that game almost as much as she loves me...I think.*
 

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"you know i like you as much as i love ddr"
 

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Alright If on Christmas we exchange present. She give me a huge box thats probably worth $20 inside, and I give her a card? Thats gonna be so awkward. Dont cha think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by aznxboi
Alright If on Christmas we exchange present. She give me a huge box thats probably worth $20 inside, and I give her a card? Thats gonna be so awkward. Dont cha think?
Not really. It's only awkward if you MAKE it awkward. I mean, holidays come and go...If most girls had it their way, you would have to give them a gift EVERYDAY!
 

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I can see how it would make you feel kinda awkward. But if it'll make you feel better [read:less awkward] get her something little. Like a stuffed animal or someting like that.

"If most girls had it their way, you would have to give them a gift EVERYDAY!"....not quite...you'd be giving several gifts a day...:D
 

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When me and my boyfriend, (we've been together just over a year now) had our little one month of being together, it was right around christmas so he gave me a christmas card. and said something like, "i cant wait to get to know you better and see where this goes". Nothing sappy or deeply meaningful because we still didnt know each other all that well.

Just get her a card and write something nice in it. I still have the card he gave me.

And for 6 months, do something they enjoy but not too big. Like, i too my boyfriend to a Padres game (his favorite team) and he took me to my favorite resteraunt. And since my birthday was around the same time, he got me a nice cross necklace.

Now that its been a year we havent seen each other so i dont know what he got me and i'm still working on his gift.
 
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