Fist_of_Fury
Don Juan
2nd month of school... of course not. Now, as for the game, it depends how good it is....
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Almost 1 Month of being together with my GF, What should I?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Well yeah...Something like San Andreas deserves a holy grail to it. But something as lame as DDR doesn't.Originally posted by Fist_of_Fury
2nd month of school... of course not. Now, as for the game, it depends how good it is....
*Note: I actually have gotten addicted a bit to DDR, I was just making a joke to my girl if you guys don't get it. She loves that game almost as much as she loves me...I think.*
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
I celebrated when Halo 2 came out.
Then I realized I didn't have an xbox
Then I realized I didn't have an xbox
Fist_of_Fury
Don Juan
"you know i like you as much as i love ddr"
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Fist_of_Fury
Don Juan
I can see how it would make you feel kinda awkward. But if it'll make you feel better [read:less awkward] get her something little. Like a stuffed animal or someting like that.
"If most girls had it their way, you would have to give them a gift EVERYDAY!"....not quite...you'd be giving several gifts a day...
"If most girls had it their way, you would have to give them a gift EVERYDAY!"....not quite...you'd be giving several gifts a day...
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When me and my boyfriend, (we've been together just over a year now) had our little one month of being together, it was right around christmas so he gave me a christmas card. and said something like, "i cant wait to get to know you better and see where this goes". Nothing sappy or deeply meaningful because we still didnt know each other all that well.
Just get her a card and write something nice in it. I still have the card he gave me.
And for 6 months, do something they enjoy but not too big. Like, i too my boyfriend to a Padres game (his favorite team) and he took me to my favorite resteraunt. And since my birthday was around the same time, he got me a nice cross necklace.
Now that its been a year we havent seen each other so i dont know what he got me and i'm still working on his gift.
Just get her a card and write something nice in it. I still have the card he gave me.
And for 6 months, do something they enjoy but not too big. Like, i too my boyfriend to a Padres game (his favorite team) and he took me to my favorite resteraunt. And since my birthday was around the same time, he got me a nice cross necklace.
Now that its been a year we havent seen each other so i dont know what he got me and i'm still working on his gift.