"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Almost 1 Month of being together with my GF, What should I?

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Do you celebrate the 2nd month of school? Getting a new game? Didn't think so.
2nd month of school... of course not. Now, as for the game, it depends how good it is....:p
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Fist_of_Fury
2nd month of school... of course not. Now, as for the game, it depends how good it is....:p
Well yeah...Something like San Andreas deserves a holy grail to it. But something as lame as DDR doesn't. ;) :p :D

*Note: I actually have gotten addicted a bit to DDR, I was just making a joke to my girl if you guys don't get it. She loves that game almost as much as she loves me...I think.*
 

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"you know i like you as much as i love ddr"
 

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Alright If on Christmas we exchange present. She give me a huge box thats probably worth $20 inside, and I give her a card? Thats gonna be so awkward. Dont cha think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by aznxboi
Alright If on Christmas we exchange present. She give me a huge box thats probably worth $20 inside, and I give her a card? Thats gonna be so awkward. Dont cha think?
Not really. It's only awkward if you MAKE it awkward. I mean, holidays come and go...If most girls had it their way, you would have to give them a gift EVERYDAY!
 

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I can see how it would make you feel kinda awkward. But if it'll make you feel better [read:less awkward] get her something little. Like a stuffed animal or someting like that.

"If most girls had it their way, you would have to give them a gift EVERYDAY!"....not quite...you'd be giving several gifts a day...:D
 

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When me and my boyfriend, (we've been together just over a year now) had our little one month of being together, it was right around christmas so he gave me a christmas card. and said something like, "i cant wait to get to know you better and see where this goes". Nothing sappy or deeply meaningful because we still didnt know each other all that well.

Just get her a card and write something nice in it. I still have the card he gave me.

And for 6 months, do something they enjoy but not too big. Like, i too my boyfriend to a Padres game (his favorite team) and he took me to my favorite resteraunt. And since my birthday was around the same time, he got me a nice cross necklace.

Now that its been a year we havent seen each other so i dont know what he got me and i'm still working on his gift.
 
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