Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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All the good girls are taken, why bother?

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Your right all the good girls are gone. So you have either two choices. 1) Good the size of your porn collection 2) Go homo.

With that attitdude you'll NEVER GET LAID!!! Let alone find a relationship.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah it's true, today I met this 18 year old HB8 (or higher) working at the mall. I couldn't # close because of all the customers around. I figured I would just talk to her again next week and build rapport like that since her store never seems quiet enough to talk for a few minutes.
So then later today I was on the computer and saw her profile on this local site similar to MySpace, and she had a bf. And he was a good looking guy too.

Think about it, why would a good looking girl who is good quality (good girl) be single? They are all taken. That's why all of the guys on sosuave (who are obviously not Naturals) are doomed.
 

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Passion said:
Yeah it's true, today I met this 18 year old HB8 (or higher) working at the mall. I couldn't # close because of all the customers around. I figured I would just talk to her again next week and build rapport like that since her store never seems quiet enough to talk for a few minutes.
So then later today I was on the computer and saw her profile on this local site similar to MySpace, and she had a bf. And he was a good looking guy too.

Think about it, why would a good looking girl who is good quality (good girl) be single? They are all taken. That's why all of the guys on sosuave (who are obviously not Naturals) are doomed.
WTF?!? I go away for an extended vacation from the site to find out that sh!t like this still exists. I cannot believe this.

To Passion:
Think about it, why would a good looking girl who is good quality (good girl) be single? They are all taken. That's why all of the guys on sosuave (who are obviously not Naturals) are doomed
Funny, I went to high school and a lot of good girls were not taken. I am currently in college at Millersville University. I met two girls that i could seriously think about dating. The one girl just started to date a girl but when she came here she was single for life. The other girl is even more amazing. She is smart, trilingual, and has an alright body. I found her to be extremely funny and witty. She has never had a date in her life. Whenever I hear someone say, "I can't find any good girls left." I still find them and they still approach me. 90% of everything that you say, is not spoken. It is the body language and things that you do that mean so much.

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bump

It still happens all the time.

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shark said:
Too many of us here as sosuave think the key to happiness in life or with women..is being this player-like type with their player-like beliefs.

Just like a good friend is hard to find, a good girlfriend or candidate for a LTR is hard to find. It is not that all girls are a certain way, it is not that any race or any group of people are some way. It may be that MOST girls around you are very snotty and rude, but not ALL of them.

Being this player type, and PUA may be all fun sometimes but you are just acting like the girls you complain about when they play their games.

Step it up, be men. Realize you're not going to find the right girl for a LTR easily, it may takes months, years..of even KNOWING the girl to realize she is for you and whatnot.

Generalizations are for the weak and lazy.
Shark, That post was increadible. Guys, Shark's post was right on point.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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bumpity bump bump bumpity bump bump

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