"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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All the good girls are taken, why bother?

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Your right all the good girls are gone. So you have either two choices. 1) Good the size of your porn collection 2) Go homo.

With that attitdude you'll NEVER GET LAID!!! Let alone find a relationship.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yeah it's true, today I met this 18 year old HB8 (or higher) working at the mall. I couldn't # close because of all the customers around. I figured I would just talk to her again next week and build rapport like that since her store never seems quiet enough to talk for a few minutes.
So then later today I was on the computer and saw her profile on this local site similar to MySpace, and she had a bf. And he was a good looking guy too.

Think about it, why would a good looking girl who is good quality (good girl) be single? They are all taken. That's why all of the guys on sosuave (who are obviously not Naturals) are doomed.
 

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Passion said:
Yeah it's true, today I met this 18 year old HB8 (or higher) working at the mall. I couldn't # close because of all the customers around. I figured I would just talk to her again next week and build rapport like that since her store never seems quiet enough to talk for a few minutes.
So then later today I was on the computer and saw her profile on this local site similar to MySpace, and she had a bf. And he was a good looking guy too.

Think about it, why would a good looking girl who is good quality (good girl) be single? They are all taken. That's why all of the guys on sosuave (who are obviously not Naturals) are doomed.
WTF?!? I go away for an extended vacation from the site to find out that sh!t like this still exists. I cannot believe this.

To Passion:
Think about it, why would a good looking girl who is good quality (good girl) be single? They are all taken. That's why all of the guys on sosuave (who are obviously not Naturals) are doomed
Funny, I went to high school and a lot of good girls were not taken. I am currently in college at Millersville University. I met two girls that i could seriously think about dating. The one girl just started to date a girl but when she came here she was single for life. The other girl is even more amazing. She is smart, trilingual, and has an alright body. I found her to be extremely funny and witty. She has never had a date in her life. Whenever I hear someone say, "I can't find any good girls left." I still find them and they still approach me. 90% of everything that you say, is not spoken. It is the body language and things that you do that mean so much.

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bump

It still happens all the time.

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shark said:
Too many of us here as sosuave think the key to happiness in life or with women..is being this player-like type with their player-like beliefs.

Just like a good friend is hard to find, a good girlfriend or candidate for a LTR is hard to find. It is not that all girls are a certain way, it is not that any race or any group of people are some way. It may be that MOST girls around you are very snotty and rude, but not ALL of them.

Being this player type, and PUA may be all fun sometimes but you are just acting like the girls you complain about when they play their games.

Step it up, be men. Realize you're not going to find the right girl for a LTR easily, it may takes months, years..of even KNOWING the girl to realize she is for you and whatnot.

Generalizations are for the weak and lazy.
Shark, That post was increadible. Guys, Shark's post was right on point.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bumpity bump bump bumpity bump bump

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