I noticed in the movie alfie( i only seen the jude law version) I thought it was pretty good but anyway = in alfie he is in a bar and he over-hears a girl saying " i dunno what is so apealing about this man" and he looks at her right in the eyes and smiles - then looks her up and down and she smiles back - is direct eye contact with a smile + looking her up and down a good thing? - it worked in the movie anyway..peace
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
alfie trick?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
RogueWarrior
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IMHO, Alfie was DEPRESSING. The guy's a player and in true Hollywood fashion, gets what he deserves. Nada.
Now, here's a nice references to C&F in a movie. "Coyote Ugly". Ludicrous plot but the boyfriend character "Kevin" has a lot of humorous lines that are classic C&F. The guy also has a lot of confidence.
Ultimately, watch any movie reference from this site with an enormous grain of salt. Things work out because they were written that way. Life isn't like that. You can plan a convo all you want but rarely do things go as planned so being able to think on your feet is an important skill.
Now, here's a nice references to C&F in a movie. "Coyote Ugly". Ludicrous plot but the boyfriend character "Kevin" has a lot of humorous lines that are classic C&F. The guy also has a lot of confidence.
Ultimately, watch any movie reference from this site with an enormous grain of salt. Things work out because they were written that way. Life isn't like that. You can plan a convo all you want but rarely do things go as planned so being able to think on your feet is an important skill.
I know the movie is written to turn out a certain way but i did see alot of don juan traits in that guy ( same with the guy in cruel intentions) and in both movies it showed how when the guy turned showed some afc moments and messed up so there is a good lesson to learn from that movie.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I know it is not real life but the question i asked was trying to ask was is establishing eye contact smiling then looking a girl up and down a good thing to do? how would she normally react to that i never said it was real life but there are some good tips in the movie.
Mr. Mystery II
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Yes it works and no it doesn't.
It depends on too many things, your attitude, her attitude, timing, ect... try it out, not for the faint at heart, but fun and to the point.
Mr. Mystery
It depends on too many things, your attitude, her attitude, timing, ect... try it out, not for the faint at heart, but fun and to the point.
Mr. Mystery