I noticed in the movie alfie( i only seen the jude law version) I thought it was pretty good but anyway = in alfie he is in a bar and he over-hears a girl saying " i dunno what is so apealing about this man" and he looks at her right in the eyes and smiles - then looks her up and down and she smiles back - is direct eye contact with a smile + looking her up and down a good thing? - it worked in the movie anyway..peace
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
alfie trick?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
RogueWarrior
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IMHO, Alfie was DEPRESSING. The guy's a player and in true Hollywood fashion, gets what he deserves. Nada.
Now, here's a nice references to C&F in a movie. "Coyote Ugly". Ludicrous plot but the boyfriend character "Kevin" has a lot of humorous lines that are classic C&F. The guy also has a lot of confidence.
Ultimately, watch any movie reference from this site with an enormous grain of salt. Things work out because they were written that way. Life isn't like that. You can plan a convo all you want but rarely do things go as planned so being able to think on your feet is an important skill.
Now, here's a nice references to C&F in a movie. "Coyote Ugly". Ludicrous plot but the boyfriend character "Kevin" has a lot of humorous lines that are classic C&F. The guy also has a lot of confidence.
Ultimately, watch any movie reference from this site with an enormous grain of salt. Things work out because they were written that way. Life isn't like that. You can plan a convo all you want but rarely do things go as planned so being able to think on your feet is an important skill.
I know the movie is written to turn out a certain way but i did see alot of don juan traits in that guy ( same with the guy in cruel intentions) and in both movies it showed how when the guy turned showed some afc moments and messed up so there is a good lesson to learn from that movie.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I know it is not real life but the question i asked was trying to ask was is establishing eye contact smiling then looking a girl up and down a good thing to do? how would she normally react to that i never said it was real life but there are some good tips in the movie.
Mr. Mystery II
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Yes it works and no it doesn't.
It depends on too many things, your attitude, her attitude, timing, ect... try it out, not for the faint at heart, but fun and to the point.
Mr. Mystery
It depends on too many things, your attitude, her attitude, timing, ect... try it out, not for the faint at heart, but fun and to the point.
Mr. Mystery