I noticed in the movie alfie( i only seen the jude law version) I thought it was pretty good but anyway = in alfie he is in a bar and he over-hears a girl saying " i dunno what is so apealing about this man" and he looks at her right in the eyes and smiles - then looks her up and down and she smiles back - is direct eye contact with a smile + looking her up and down a good thing? - it worked in the movie anyway..peace
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
alfie trick?
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IMHO, Alfie was DEPRESSING. The guy's a player and in true Hollywood fashion, gets what he deserves. Nada.
Now, here's a nice references to C&F in a movie. "Coyote Ugly". Ludicrous plot but the boyfriend character "Kevin" has a lot of humorous lines that are classic C&F. The guy also has a lot of confidence.
Ultimately, watch any movie reference from this site with an enormous grain of salt. Things work out because they were written that way. Life isn't like that. You can plan a convo all you want but rarely do things go as planned so being able to think on your feet is an important skill.
Now, here's a nice references to C&F in a movie. "Coyote Ugly". Ludicrous plot but the boyfriend character "Kevin" has a lot of humorous lines that are classic C&F. The guy also has a lot of confidence.
Ultimately, watch any movie reference from this site with an enormous grain of salt. Things work out because they were written that way. Life isn't like that. You can plan a convo all you want but rarely do things go as planned so being able to think on your feet is an important skill.
I know the movie is written to turn out a certain way but i did see alot of don juan traits in that guy ( same with the guy in cruel intentions) and in both movies it showed how when the guy turned showed some afc moments and messed up so there is a good lesson to learn from that movie.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I know it is not real life but the question i asked was trying to ask was is establishing eye contact smiling then looking a girl up and down a good thing to do? how would she normally react to that i never said it was real life but there are some good tips in the movie.
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Yes it works and no it doesn't.
It depends on too many things, your attitude, her attitude, timing, ect... try it out, not for the faint at heart, but fun and to the point.
Mr. Mystery
It depends on too many things, your attitude, her attitude, timing, ect... try it out, not for the faint at heart, but fun and to the point.
Mr. Mystery