I noticed in the movie alfie( i only seen the jude law version) I thought it was pretty good but anyway = in alfie he is in a bar and he over-hears a girl saying " i dunno what is so apealing about this man" and he looks at her right in the eyes and smiles - then looks her up and down and she smiles back - is direct eye contact with a smile + looking her up and down a good thing? - it worked in the movie anyway..peace
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
alfie trick?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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IMHO, Alfie was DEPRESSING. The guy's a player and in true Hollywood fashion, gets what he deserves. Nada.
Now, here's a nice references to C&F in a movie. "Coyote Ugly". Ludicrous plot but the boyfriend character "Kevin" has a lot of humorous lines that are classic C&F. The guy also has a lot of confidence.
Ultimately, watch any movie reference from this site with an enormous grain of salt. Things work out because they were written that way. Life isn't like that. You can plan a convo all you want but rarely do things go as planned so being able to think on your feet is an important skill.
Now, here's a nice references to C&F in a movie. "Coyote Ugly". Ludicrous plot but the boyfriend character "Kevin" has a lot of humorous lines that are classic C&F. The guy also has a lot of confidence.
Ultimately, watch any movie reference from this site with an enormous grain of salt. Things work out because they were written that way. Life isn't like that. You can plan a convo all you want but rarely do things go as planned so being able to think on your feet is an important skill.
I know the movie is written to turn out a certain way but i did see alot of don juan traits in that guy ( same with the guy in cruel intentions) and in both movies it showed how when the guy turned showed some afc moments and messed up so there is a good lesson to learn from that movie.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I know it is not real life but the question i asked was trying to ask was is establishing eye contact smiling then looking a girl up and down a good thing to do? how would she normally react to that i never said it was real life but there are some good tips in the movie.
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Yes it works and no it doesn't.
It depends on too many things, your attitude, her attitude, timing, ect... try it out, not for the faint at heart, but fun and to the point.
Mr. Mystery
It depends on too many things, your attitude, her attitude, timing, ect... try it out, not for the faint at heart, but fun and to the point.
Mr. Mystery