"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AH909s Stronglifts 5x5 journal

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Wednesday, A day

Squat - 185

Bench - 135

Rows - 95

Friday - B day

Squat - 190

Overhead Press - 75

Deadlift - 195
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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didnt update all last week so here it is

Monday, A day

Squat - 195

Bench -140

Rows - 100

Wednesday, B day

Squat - 200

Overhead Press - 80

Dead lift - 205

Friday, A day

Squat - 205

Bench - 145

Rows - 105
 

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Monday, B day

Squat - 210

Overhead press - 85

Deadlift - 225
 

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Wednesday, A day

Squat - 215

Bench - 150

Lat pulldown - 135

My chest was super sore from all the push ups we had to do last night at pt cause no one knew their general orders. So i only got 2 sets on Bench and i decided to call it quits because it just wasnt feeling right and I have pt again tommorow. I also decided to do Lat pulldown instead of rows because they would work my back muscles without doing my chest too.
 

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Friday - B day

Squat - 220

OP - 90

Dead - 235
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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