"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Affraid of how feminism are modelling our society

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After reading The rational male, I started to observe more about people behavior on your society, and was thinking about my experiences...

Does anyone feel affraid of what this can turn in the future?

I see a lot of ilogically hate being created by those stupids extremist feminism ideas... And society and some AFCs defend it so hard, that if you express your opinion about something that offends those ideals, they got so angry that its scares me.

I am moving away from people like that, men and women... and unfortanely my family. I have a child from a "accidental" pregnancy, and they are doing everything to demonize me as a person. My plan for that is: I am preparing to leave my city, and also capacitate myself to have my own business and money without working at my dad's company anymore... I think it's the only solution, and I can't look into their faces anymore.

I look at this world and I see blind people.

Btw, I'm from Brazil... And would like to hear what you think about it.

Thanks!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you feel like brazil is messed up, try to check out the us or better yet sweden...
 

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If you feel like brazil is messed up, try to check out the us or better yet sweden...
Why? Can you share a bit more?

Sometime I think brazil is worse, because it's not a first world country and then people are less knowledge.
 

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Yep, things look bad right now. Our only option is deregulation. Governments have become corrupted to the point of destroying society.

We are looking at the consiquences of having fools in power for centuries.
 

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Yep, things look bad right now. Our only option is deregulation. Governments have become corrupted to the point of destroying society.

We are looking at the consiquences of having fools in power for centuries.
What do you think it would take to get wise men into power?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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OP, you are not alone. You are right on getting away from people who bring you down. I've trimmed off friends and family over the years, even a few close people like my former best man when I got married is HISTORY. As well as one of my sisters who I used to meet for dinner every Wednesday night. Both are dead to me now. That is because these people still don't accept me as my own person with a spine. They still try to shove propaganda down my throat that I use to eat right up as a young beta but I no longer do and that upsets them which causes them to treat me even worse. As for the future, I think a man's best plan of attack is to do what you have done and get rid of toxic people as much as possible. And for those you cannot get rid of then what you have to do is minimize your contact with them and for the contact you have to have, cover your azz. Follow the Mike Pence rule around unknown women. Document everything with and around the toxic people that you cannot avoid. It's really sad just how bad some people have got. There still are good people out there, you just have to look harder for them and maybe make some uncomfortable or unknown adjustments to bring them into your circle of people you interact with daily.
 

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Feminist ideology is filling the cultural void. But what could be even worse is the inevitable and reactionary backlash.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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After reading The rational male, I started to observe more about people behavior on your society, and was thinking about my experiences...

Does anyone feel affraid of what this can turn in the future?

I see a lot of ilogically hate being created by those stupids extremist feminism ideas... And society and some AFCs defend it so hard, that if you express your opinion about something that offends those ideals, they got so angry that its scares me.

I am moving away from people like that, men and women... and unfortanely my family. I have a child from a "accidental" pregnancy, and they are doing everything to demonize me as a person. My plan for that is: I am preparing to leave my city, and also capacitate myself to have my own business and money without working at my dad's company anymore... I think it's the only solution, and I can't look into their faces anymore.

I look at this world and I see blind people.

Btw, I'm from Brazil... And would like to hear what you think about it.

Thanks!
Yep starting over somewhere new is a great idea if you've been blown out socially or family fued . Give yourself at least three years for growth in the new area. Don't talk to them at all .
 

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Marcel, aconselho que você leia o livro de Pook. Vai aprender bastante. Vc não está sozinho essa, tem muita gente assim. A diferença é o que vc faz em relação a seus problemas.
 

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An act of God.
Certainly, it can be accomplished without divine intervention.

If a means whereby something may be achieved is meditated upon, a solution will eventually appear.

The questions is: What is it?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Certainly, it can be accomplished without divine intervention.

If a means whereby something may be achieved is meditated upon, a solution will eventually appear.

The questions is: What is it?
Right, let us all now how that works out for you.o_O
 

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Are you always this pessimistic?

I believe the day will come when wise men do rule the country. I'm in Canada.

Have you no faith in that happening?
I have no faith in fallible humans.

On the bright side, only God is perfect.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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