"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Affraid of how feminism are modelling our society

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After reading The rational male, I started to observe more about people behavior on your society, and was thinking about my experiences...

Does anyone feel affraid of what this can turn in the future?

I see a lot of ilogically hate being created by those stupids extremist feminism ideas... And society and some AFCs defend it so hard, that if you express your opinion about something that offends those ideals, they got so angry that its scares me.

I am moving away from people like that, men and women... and unfortanely my family. I have a child from a "accidental" pregnancy, and they are doing everything to demonize me as a person. My plan for that is: I am preparing to leave my city, and also capacitate myself to have my own business and money without working at my dad's company anymore... I think it's the only solution, and I can't look into their faces anymore.

I look at this world and I see blind people.

Btw, I'm from Brazil... And would like to hear what you think about it.

Thanks!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you feel like brazil is messed up, try to check out the us or better yet sweden...
 

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If you feel like brazil is messed up, try to check out the us or better yet sweden...
Why? Can you share a bit more?

Sometime I think brazil is worse, because it's not a first world country and then people are less knowledge.
 

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Yep, things look bad right now. Our only option is deregulation. Governments have become corrupted to the point of destroying society.

We are looking at the consiquences of having fools in power for centuries.
 

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Yep, things look bad right now. Our only option is deregulation. Governments have become corrupted to the point of destroying society.

We are looking at the consiquences of having fools in power for centuries.
What do you think it would take to get wise men into power?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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OP, you are not alone. You are right on getting away from people who bring you down. I've trimmed off friends and family over the years, even a few close people like my former best man when I got married is HISTORY. As well as one of my sisters who I used to meet for dinner every Wednesday night. Both are dead to me now. That is because these people still don't accept me as my own person with a spine. They still try to shove propaganda down my throat that I use to eat right up as a young beta but I no longer do and that upsets them which causes them to treat me even worse. As for the future, I think a man's best plan of attack is to do what you have done and get rid of toxic people as much as possible. And for those you cannot get rid of then what you have to do is minimize your contact with them and for the contact you have to have, cover your azz. Follow the Mike Pence rule around unknown women. Document everything with and around the toxic people that you cannot avoid. It's really sad just how bad some people have got. There still are good people out there, you just have to look harder for them and maybe make some uncomfortable or unknown adjustments to bring them into your circle of people you interact with daily.
 

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Feminist ideology is filling the cultural void. But what could be even worse is the inevitable and reactionary backlash.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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After reading The rational male, I started to observe more about people behavior on your society, and was thinking about my experiences...

Does anyone feel affraid of what this can turn in the future?

I see a lot of ilogically hate being created by those stupids extremist feminism ideas... And society and some AFCs defend it so hard, that if you express your opinion about something that offends those ideals, they got so angry that its scares me.

I am moving away from people like that, men and women... and unfortanely my family. I have a child from a "accidental" pregnancy, and they are doing everything to demonize me as a person. My plan for that is: I am preparing to leave my city, and also capacitate myself to have my own business and money without working at my dad's company anymore... I think it's the only solution, and I can't look into their faces anymore.

I look at this world and I see blind people.

Btw, I'm from Brazil... And would like to hear what you think about it.

Thanks!
Yep starting over somewhere new is a great idea if you've been blown out socially or family fued . Give yourself at least three years for growth in the new area. Don't talk to them at all .
 

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Marcel, aconselho que você leia o livro de Pook. Vai aprender bastante. Vc não está sozinho essa, tem muita gente assim. A diferença é o que vc faz em relação a seus problemas.
 

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An act of God.
Certainly, it can be accomplished without divine intervention.

If a means whereby something may be achieved is meditated upon, a solution will eventually appear.

The questions is: What is it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Certainly, it can be accomplished without divine intervention.

If a means whereby something may be achieved is meditated upon, a solution will eventually appear.

The questions is: What is it?
Right, let us all now how that works out for you.o_O
 

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Are you always this pessimistic?

I believe the day will come when wise men do rule the country. I'm in Canada.

Have you no faith in that happening?
I have no faith in fallible humans.

On the bright side, only God is perfect.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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