http://www.ebaumsworld.com/2006/09/another-dod-loser.html
Is this guy a candidate for Sosuave or what??
Is this guy a candidate for Sosuave or what??
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Its true that it might be fake and it does look fake. However the dating site is legit and it costs time and money to put your video blog there, so I don't know why would someone go for all this trouble just to get a kick out of coming off nerdish and having girls at the bottom of the barrel wanting to hook up with him.Le Parisien said:I simply can't believe it's for real. He's SO articulate during his minutes long loser life description that it looks like a very good comedian playing the role of some worst case nerd/geek.
Potential is one thing, ever reaching it is another. I am sure he is aware of his shortcomings but accepts it as being "himself". In College/Univesrity I see plenty of guys just like him around, he is just like thousands of others.Le Parisien said:It't really not believable, this guy has so much good potential (somewhat above average face, clear face with no acne, not fat, doesn't look like he's short, articulate etc...) to work with that I can't imagine him being this really really bad case of nerd and not even being aware of it...![]()
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.