http://www.ebaumsworld.com/2006/09/another-dod-loser.html
Is this guy a candidate for Sosuave or what??
Is this guy a candidate for Sosuave or what??
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Its true that it might be fake and it does look fake. However the dating site is legit and it costs time and money to put your video blog there, so I don't know why would someone go for all this trouble just to get a kick out of coming off nerdish and having girls at the bottom of the barrel wanting to hook up with him.Le Parisien said:I simply can't believe it's for real. He's SO articulate during his minutes long loser life description that it looks like a very good comedian playing the role of some worst case nerd/geek.
Potential is one thing, ever reaching it is another. I am sure he is aware of his shortcomings but accepts it as being "himself". In College/Univesrity I see plenty of guys just like him around, he is just like thousands of others.Le Parisien said:It't really not believable, this guy has so much good potential (somewhat above average face, clear face with no acne, not fat, doesn't look like he's short, articulate etc...) to work with that I can't imagine him being this really really bad case of nerd and not even being aware of it...![]()
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.