http://www.ebaumsworld.com/2006/09/another-dod-loser.html
Is this guy a candidate for Sosuave or what??
Is this guy a candidate for Sosuave or what??
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
no way!
hes a barrel of laughs to be around :crackup:
hes a barrel of laughs to be around :crackup:
StrangeButTrue
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Oh my God, the end was the best part, when he just babbles on and on in his girly-ass voice about anime... Ahaha...
Thanks for sharing! :crackup:
Thanks for sharing! :crackup:
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
I simply can't believe it's for real. He's SO articulate during his minutes long loser life description that it looks like a very good comedian playing the role of some worst case nerd/geek.
It't really not believable, this guy has so much good potential (somewhat above average face, clear face with no acne, not fat, doesn't look like he's short, articulate etc...) to work with that I can't imagine him being this really really bad case of nerd and not even being aware of it...
It't really not believable, this guy has so much good potential (somewhat above average face, clear face with no acne, not fat, doesn't look like he's short, articulate etc...) to work with that I can't imagine him being this really really bad case of nerd and not even being aware of it...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
The instant he mentioned the Email (Ataru... whatever), I knew it was gonna go in the anime direction. He couldnt just mention it and move on, he HAD to go into it. he spoke pretty passionately about it.. "he had an extremely cute alien girlfriend"... I swear, at that moment, it felt like rejection become personified. this dude has no chance. poor guy.
Its true that it might be fake and it does look fake. However the dating site is legit and it costs time and money to put your video blog there, so I don't know why would someone go for all this trouble just to get a kick out of coming off nerdish and having girls at the bottom of the barrel wanting to hook up with him.Le Parisien said:
Potential is one thing, ever reaching it is another. I am sure he is aware of his shortcomings but accepts it as being "himself". In College/Univesrity I see plenty of guys just like him around, he is just like thousands of others.Le Parisien said:It't really not believable, this guy has so much good potential (somewhat above average face, clear face with no acne, not fat, doesn't look like he's short, articulate etc...) to work with that I can't imagine him being this really really bad case of nerd and not even being aware of it...
Not everyone will go through the hard knock school of Sosuave.
brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
"the wild and crazyiest thing i have ever done is walk across the street without looking......"
wow, dont hold your breath cheif
wow, dont hold your breath cheif
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.