http://www.ebaumsworld.com/2006/09/another-dod-loser.html
Is this guy a candidate for Sosuave or what??
Is this guy a candidate for Sosuave or what??
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
AFC dating video profile
- Thread starter DJDamage
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
no way!
hes a barrel of laughs to be around :crackup:
hes a barrel of laughs to be around :crackup:
StrangeButTrue
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Oh my God, the end was the best part, when he just babbles on and on in his girly-ass voice about anime... Ahaha...
Thanks for sharing! :crackup:
Thanks for sharing! :crackup:
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
I simply can't believe it's for real. He's SO articulate during his minutes long loser life description that it looks like a very good comedian playing the role of some worst case nerd/geek.
It't really not believable, this guy has so much good potential (somewhat above average face, clear face with no acne, not fat, doesn't look like he's short, articulate etc...) to work with that I can't imagine him being this really really bad case of nerd and not even being aware of it...
It't really not believable, this guy has so much good potential (somewhat above average face, clear face with no acne, not fat, doesn't look like he's short, articulate etc...) to work with that I can't imagine him being this really really bad case of nerd and not even being aware of it...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
The instant he mentioned the Email (Ataru... whatever), I knew it was gonna go in the anime direction. He couldnt just mention it and move on, he HAD to go into it. he spoke pretty passionately about it.. "he had an extremely cute alien girlfriend"... I swear, at that moment, it felt like rejection become personified. this dude has no chance. poor guy.
Its true that it might be fake and it does look fake. However the dating site is legit and it costs time and money to put your video blog there, so I don't know why would someone go for all this trouble just to get a kick out of coming off nerdish and having girls at the bottom of the barrel wanting to hook up with him.Le Parisien said:
Potential is one thing, ever reaching it is another. I am sure he is aware of his shortcomings but accepts it as being "himself". In College/Univesrity I see plenty of guys just like him around, he is just like thousands of others.Le Parisien said:It't really not believable, this guy has so much good potential (somewhat above average face, clear face with no acne, not fat, doesn't look like he's short, articulate etc...) to work with that I can't imagine him being this really really bad case of nerd and not even being aware of it...
Not everyone will go through the hard knock school of Sosuave.
brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
"the wild and crazyiest thing i have ever done is walk across the street without looking......"
wow, dont hold your breath cheif
wow, dont hold your breath cheif
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.