http://www.ebaumsworld.com/2006/09/another-dod-loser.html
Is this guy a candidate for Sosuave or what??
Is this guy a candidate for Sosuave or what??
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Its true that it might be fake and it does look fake. However the dating site is legit and it costs time and money to put your video blog there, so I don't know why would someone go for all this trouble just to get a kick out of coming off nerdish and having girls at the bottom of the barrel wanting to hook up with him.Le Parisien said:I simply can't believe it's for real. He's SO articulate during his minutes long loser life description that it looks like a very good comedian playing the role of some worst case nerd/geek.
Potential is one thing, ever reaching it is another. I am sure he is aware of his shortcomings but accepts it as being "himself". In College/Univesrity I see plenty of guys just like him around, he is just like thousands of others.Le Parisien said:It't really not believable, this guy has so much good potential (somewhat above average face, clear face with no acne, not fat, doesn't look like he's short, articulate etc...) to work with that I can't imagine him being this really really bad case of nerd and not even being aware of it...![]()
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.