If you were in this guy's shoe how would you respond?
(What would be the best response?)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxdnZ_3FnDA
(What would be the best response?)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxdnZ_3FnDA
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
AFC Bad Date (video)
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- Start date
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I think he needed more than looks for his AFCism problem. If I was that guy I wouldnt have let her throw food into my face. If she did I would have taken the whole plate of food and dumped it on her.SexinEar said:the guy was good looking too (no homo)
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Thats a good response!Knyteguy said:Get up, start walking away. I don't need to listen to that ****, when I could go bang many girls way hotter than her.
I like this line "..I could go bang many girls way hotter than her"
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Distant Light
Master Don Juan
Why would you want to run from a challenge like that and plus it was on national tv.
A few things you can point out easily are:
1. Through the whole date she was leading
2. He logically trying to speak to her
3. **** tests all failed
4. He was putting up with that sh!t and did nothing about it
This guy could have turned it around instantly but as you can see from when the video first started that is where everything was going downhill.
Nice video though, when i was smaller I used to love this show
A few things you can point out easily are:
1. Through the whole date she was leading
2. He logically trying to speak to her
3. **** tests all failed
4. He was putting up with that sh!t and did nothing about it
This guy could have turned it around instantly but as you can see from when the video first started that is where everything was going downhill.
Nice video though, when i was smaller I used to love this show
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What do you think would be the best response to her Distant Light????Distant Light said:Why would you want to run from a challenge like that and plus it was on national tv.
A few things you can point out easily are:
1. Through the whole date she was leading
2. He logically trying to speak to her
3. **** tests all failed
4. He was putting up with that sh!t and did nothing about it
This guy could have turned it around instantly but as you can see from when the video first started that is where everything was going downhill.
Nice video though, when i was smaller I used to love this show
ddddang. i woulda told that ***** to get outta my face before they even started eating
"i feel like we were doin good about 3 minutes ago"
i woulda been like "i feel like u shoulda left bout 3 seconds ago. get the fuk outta here"
"i feel like we were doin good about 3 minutes ago"
i woulda been like "i feel like u shoulda left bout 3 seconds ago. get the fuk outta here"
trance_addict
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Well, thats a blind-date clip (or whatever the show is called)
And everyone knows that reality tv shows are basicalyl scripted. They tell these people what to say to each other, for the most part, so that it's entertaining and people will watch it.
I know for a fact, that blind date does this. Take that "date" with a grain of salt....or maybe the whole salt shaker.
And everyone knows that reality tv shows are basicalyl scripted. They tell these people what to say to each other, for the most part, so that it's entertaining and people will watch it.
I know for a fact, that blind date does this. Take that "date" with a grain of salt....or maybe the whole salt shaker.
trance_addict
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She's not all that great looking, wears too much makeup, and gives off a shiny appearance. EWWEY. I woulda said "fukk you" and took off, within the first few minutes of that!
She's not all that great looking, wears too much makeup, and gives off a shiny appearance. EWWEY. I woulda said "fukk you" and took off, within the first few minutes of that!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Kings_royalty
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Oh man, that was painful to watch.
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Master Don Juan
I hope he enjoyed the rest of his meal.
Watching that now... and seeing that he doesn't like confrontations, what he could have done was said something like: "hey, look over there! that hot guy is checking you out!", and while she's got her head turned, just take the food, stand up, and go sit at another table.
Preferably far away.
Watching that now... and seeing that he doesn't like confrontations, what he could have done was said something like: "hey, look over there! that hot guy is checking you out!", and while she's got her head turned, just take the food, stand up, and go sit at another table.
Preferably far away.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
I'm not sure what he did before the video started but I would have cut that thread off and would have got her laughing. He fuvked it up for himself by logically trying to explain stuff to her. I would have maybe agreed with her about the loser shelter and did some form of roleplaying.Freddy1 said:What do you think would be the best response to her Distant Light????
Her: "I think you should live in a loser shelter"
Me: "wow hold up, i've only known you for xyz and already you're trying to bring me back to you're shelter, I need trust and comfort first."
or
Me: "How did you know. You've been stalking me, yep You've been sitting on my tree and watching me shower. You're the girl who keeps blowing up myself."
Man he could have done anything she threw test after test at that guy and he was just sitting there all serious and ****, what man isn't down for a food fight.
BuckwildNYC
Senior Don Juan
If you noticed, her disrepect was escalating because he wasn't giving her any reaction. I think he played it well. Why stoop to her level of maturity. Be a man and let HER make a fool of herself. There's a saying "never argue with fools because from a distance, no one can tell the difference."
DJinTraining06
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i don't get why u guys are calling this guy an AFC. He handled it perfectly. He let her babble on like an idiot and made her make an idiot of herlself, and he didnt los ehis cool. He seemed like a confident guy to me who could care less wat she thought or at least hid it very well. Besides wat was he gona do at the end throw food back at her? that's infantile and he would just look like the jerk to the whole restaurant.
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^^real talk.....nuff said dunn.....BuckwildNYC said:...Why stoop to her level of maturity. Be a man and let HER make a fool of herself. There's a saying "never argue with fools because from a distance, no one can tell the difference."
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.