If you were in this guy's shoe how would you respond?
(What would be the best response?)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxdnZ_3FnDA
(What would be the best response?)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxdnZ_3FnDA
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
AFC Bad Date (video)
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- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I think he needed more than looks for his AFCism problem. If I was that guy I wouldnt have let her throw food into my face. If she did I would have taken the whole plate of food and dumped it on her.SexinEar said:the guy was good looking too (no homo)
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Thats a good response!Knyteguy said:Get up, start walking away. I don't need to listen to that ****, when I could go bang many girls way hotter than her.
I like this line "..I could go bang many girls way hotter than her"
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Distant Light
Master Don Juan
Why would you want to run from a challenge like that and plus it was on national tv.
A few things you can point out easily are:
1. Through the whole date she was leading
2. He logically trying to speak to her
3. **** tests all failed
4. He was putting up with that sh!t and did nothing about it
This guy could have turned it around instantly but as you can see from when the video first started that is where everything was going downhill.
Nice video though, when i was smaller I used to love this show
A few things you can point out easily are:
1. Through the whole date she was leading
2. He logically trying to speak to her
3. **** tests all failed
4. He was putting up with that sh!t and did nothing about it
This guy could have turned it around instantly but as you can see from when the video first started that is where everything was going downhill.
Nice video though, when i was smaller I used to love this show
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What do you think would be the best response to her Distant Light????Distant Light said:Why would you want to run from a challenge like that and plus it was on national tv.
A few things you can point out easily are:
1. Through the whole date she was leading
2. He logically trying to speak to her
3. **** tests all failed
4. He was putting up with that sh!t and did nothing about it
This guy could have turned it around instantly but as you can see from when the video first started that is where everything was going downhill.
Nice video though, when i was smaller I used to love this show
ddddang. i woulda told that ***** to get outta my face before they even started eating
"i feel like we were doin good about 3 minutes ago"
i woulda been like "i feel like u shoulda left bout 3 seconds ago. get the fuk outta here"
"i feel like we were doin good about 3 minutes ago"
i woulda been like "i feel like u shoulda left bout 3 seconds ago. get the fuk outta here"
trance_addict
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Well, thats a blind-date clip (or whatever the show is called)
And everyone knows that reality tv shows are basicalyl scripted. They tell these people what to say to each other, for the most part, so that it's entertaining and people will watch it.
I know for a fact, that blind date does this. Take that "date" with a grain of salt....or maybe the whole salt shaker.
And everyone knows that reality tv shows are basicalyl scripted. They tell these people what to say to each other, for the most part, so that it's entertaining and people will watch it.
I know for a fact, that blind date does this. Take that "date" with a grain of salt....or maybe the whole salt shaker.
trance_addict
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She's not all that great looking, wears too much makeup, and gives off a shiny appearance. EWWEY. I woulda said "fukk you" and took off, within the first few minutes of that!
She's not all that great looking, wears too much makeup, and gives off a shiny appearance. EWWEY. I woulda said "fukk you" and took off, within the first few minutes of that!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Kings_royalty
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Oh man, that was painful to watch.
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Master Don Juan
I hope he enjoyed the rest of his meal.
Watching that now... and seeing that he doesn't like confrontations, what he could have done was said something like: "hey, look over there! that hot guy is checking you out!", and while she's got her head turned, just take the food, stand up, and go sit at another table.
Preferably far away.
Watching that now... and seeing that he doesn't like confrontations, what he could have done was said something like: "hey, look over there! that hot guy is checking you out!", and while she's got her head turned, just take the food, stand up, and go sit at another table.
Preferably far away.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
I'm not sure what he did before the video started but I would have cut that thread off and would have got her laughing. He fuvked it up for himself by logically trying to explain stuff to her. I would have maybe agreed with her about the loser shelter and did some form of roleplaying.Freddy1 said:What do you think would be the best response to her Distant Light????
Her: "I think you should live in a loser shelter"
Me: "wow hold up, i've only known you for xyz and already you're trying to bring me back to you're shelter, I need trust and comfort first."
or
Me: "How did you know. You've been stalking me, yep You've been sitting on my tree and watching me shower. You're the girl who keeps blowing up myself."
Man he could have done anything she threw test after test at that guy and he was just sitting there all serious and ****, what man isn't down for a food fight.
BuckwildNYC
Senior Don Juan
If you noticed, her disrepect was escalating because he wasn't giving her any reaction. I think he played it well. Why stoop to her level of maturity. Be a man and let HER make a fool of herself. There's a saying "never argue with fools because from a distance, no one can tell the difference."
DJinTraining06
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i don't get why u guys are calling this guy an AFC. He handled it perfectly. He let her babble on like an idiot and made her make an idiot of herlself, and he didnt los ehis cool. He seemed like a confident guy to me who could care less wat she thought or at least hid it very well. Besides wat was he gona do at the end throw food back at her? that's infantile and he would just look like the jerk to the whole restaurant.
S.S.N. 318
Don Juan
^^real talk.....nuff said dunn.....BuckwildNYC said:...Why stoop to her level of maturity. Be a man and let HER make a fool of herself. There's a saying "never argue with fools because from a distance, no one can tell the difference."
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.