"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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AFC Bad Date (video)

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SexinEar said:
the guy was good looking too (no homo)
I think he needed more than looks for his AFCism problem. If I was that guy I wouldnt have let her throw food into my face. If she did I would have taken the whole plate of food and dumped it on her.
 
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Knyteguy said:
Get up, start walking away. I don't need to listen to that ****, when I could go bang many girls way hotter than her.
Thats a good response!

I like this line "..I could go bang many girls way hotter than her"
 
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Why would you want to run from a challenge like that and plus it was on national tv.

A few things you can point out easily are:
1. Through the whole date she was leading
2. He logically trying to speak to her
3. **** tests all failed
4. He was putting up with that sh!t and did nothing about it

This guy could have turned it around instantly but as you can see from when the video first started that is where everything was going downhill.

Nice video though, when i was smaller I used to love this show
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Distant Light said:
Why would you want to run from a challenge like that and plus it was on national tv.

A few things you can point out easily are:
1. Through the whole date she was leading
2. He logically trying to speak to her
3. **** tests all failed
4. He was putting up with that sh!t and did nothing about it

This guy could have turned it around instantly but as you can see from when the video first started that is where everything was going downhill.

Nice video though, when i was smaller I used to love this show
What do you think would be the best response to her Distant Light????
 

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ddddang. i woulda told that ***** to get outta my face before they even started eating

"i feel like we were doin good about 3 minutes ago"

i woulda been like "i feel like u shoulda left bout 3 seconds ago. get the fuk outta here"
 

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Well, thats a blind-date clip (or whatever the show is called)

And everyone knows that reality tv shows are basicalyl scripted. They tell these people what to say to each other, for the most part, so that it's entertaining and people will watch it.

I know for a fact, that blind date does this. Take that "date" with a grain of salt....or maybe the whole salt shaker.
 

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p.s.

She's not all that great looking, wears too much makeup, and gives off a shiny appearance. EWWEY. I woulda said "fukk you" and took off, within the first few minutes of that!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I find it hard to believe a Low Budget show like that is scripted.
Its too time consuming and costs them more money in the long run.
 

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I hope he enjoyed the rest of his meal.

Watching that now... and seeing that he doesn't like confrontations, what he could have done was said something like: "hey, look over there! that hot guy is checking you out!", and while she's got her head turned, just take the food, stand up, and go sit at another table.

Preferably far away.
 

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His own fault.

And yes, she is a *****
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Freddy1 said:
What do you think would be the best response to her Distant Light????
I'm not sure what he did before the video started but I would have cut that thread off and would have got her laughing. He fuvked it up for himself by logically trying to explain stuff to her. I would have maybe agreed with her about the loser shelter and did some form of roleplaying.

Her: "I think you should live in a loser shelter"
Me: "wow hold up, i've only known you for xyz and already you're trying to bring me back to you're shelter, I need trust and comfort first."

or

Me: "How did you know. You've been stalking me, yep You've been sitting on my tree and watching me shower. You're the girl who keeps blowing up myself."

Man he could have done anything she threw test after test at that guy and he was just sitting there all serious and ****, what man isn't down for a food fight.
 

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fuk that, that wasnt a test. she was jus a *****. if a girl was "testing" me like that, i wouldnt wanna get wit her anyway
 

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If you noticed, her disrepect was escalating because he wasn't giving her any reaction. I think he played it well. Why stoop to her level of maturity. Be a man and let HER make a fool of herself. There's a saying "never argue with fools because from a distance, no one can tell the difference."
 

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i don't get why u guys are calling this guy an AFC. He handled it perfectly. He let her babble on like an idiot and made her make an idiot of herlself, and he didnt los ehis cool. He seemed like a confident guy to me who could care less wat she thought or at least hid it very well. Besides wat was he gona do at the end throw food back at her? that's infantile and he would just look like the jerk to the whole restaurant.
 

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BuckwildNYC said:
...Why stoop to her level of maturity. Be a man and let HER make a fool of herself. There's a saying "never argue with fools because from a distance, no one can tell the difference."
^^real talk.....nuff said dunn.....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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