If you were in this guy's shoe how would you respond?
(What would be the best response?)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxdnZ_3FnDA
(What would be the best response?)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxdnZ_3FnDA
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I think he needed more than looks for his AFCism problem. If I was that guy I wouldnt have let her throw food into my face. If she did I would have taken the whole plate of food and dumped it on her.SexinEar said:the guy was good looking too (no homo)
Thats a good response!Knyteguy said:Get up, start walking away. I don't need to listen to that ****, when I could go bang many girls way hotter than her.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What do you think would be the best response to her Distant Light????Distant Light said:Why would you want to run from a challenge like that and plus it was on national tv.
A few things you can point out easily are:
1. Through the whole date she was leading
2. He logically trying to speak to her
3. **** tests all failed
4. He was putting up with that sh!t and did nothing about it
This guy could have turned it around instantly but as you can see from when the video first started that is where everything was going downhill.
Nice video though, when i was smaller I used to love this show
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I'm not sure what he did before the video started but I would have cut that thread off and would have got her laughing. He fuvked it up for himself by logically trying to explain stuff to her. I would have maybe agreed with her about the loser shelter and did some form of roleplaying.Freddy1 said:What do you think would be the best response to her Distant Light????
^^real talk.....nuff said dunn.....BuckwildNYC said:...Why stoop to her level of maturity. Be a man and let HER make a fool of herself. There's a saying "never argue with fools because from a distance, no one can tell the difference."
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.