If you were in this guy's shoe how would you respond?
(What would be the best response?)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxdnZ_3FnDA
(What would be the best response?)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxdnZ_3FnDA
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
AFC Bad Date (video)
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- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I think he needed more than looks for his AFCism problem. If I was that guy I wouldnt have let her throw food into my face. If she did I would have taken the whole plate of food and dumped it on her.SexinEar said:the guy was good looking too (no homo)
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Thats a good response!Knyteguy said:Get up, start walking away. I don't need to listen to that ****, when I could go bang many girls way hotter than her.
I like this line "..I could go bang many girls way hotter than her"
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Distant Light
Master Don Juan
Why would you want to run from a challenge like that and plus it was on national tv.
A few things you can point out easily are:
1. Through the whole date she was leading
2. He logically trying to speak to her
3. **** tests all failed
4. He was putting up with that sh!t and did nothing about it
This guy could have turned it around instantly but as you can see from when the video first started that is where everything was going downhill.
Nice video though, when i was smaller I used to love this show
A few things you can point out easily are:
1. Through the whole date she was leading
2. He logically trying to speak to her
3. **** tests all failed
4. He was putting up with that sh!t and did nothing about it
This guy could have turned it around instantly but as you can see from when the video first started that is where everything was going downhill.
Nice video though, when i was smaller I used to love this show
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What do you think would be the best response to her Distant Light????Distant Light said:Why would you want to run from a challenge like that and plus it was on national tv.
A few things you can point out easily are:
1. Through the whole date she was leading
2. He logically trying to speak to her
3. **** tests all failed
4. He was putting up with that sh!t and did nothing about it
This guy could have turned it around instantly but as you can see from when the video first started that is where everything was going downhill.
Nice video though, when i was smaller I used to love this show
ddddang. i woulda told that ***** to get outta my face before they even started eating
"i feel like we were doin good about 3 minutes ago"
i woulda been like "i feel like u shoulda left bout 3 seconds ago. get the fuk outta here"
"i feel like we were doin good about 3 minutes ago"
i woulda been like "i feel like u shoulda left bout 3 seconds ago. get the fuk outta here"
trance_addict
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Well, thats a blind-date clip (or whatever the show is called)
And everyone knows that reality tv shows are basicalyl scripted. They tell these people what to say to each other, for the most part, so that it's entertaining and people will watch it.
I know for a fact, that blind date does this. Take that "date" with a grain of salt....or maybe the whole salt shaker.
And everyone knows that reality tv shows are basicalyl scripted. They tell these people what to say to each other, for the most part, so that it's entertaining and people will watch it.
I know for a fact, that blind date does this. Take that "date" with a grain of salt....or maybe the whole salt shaker.
trance_addict
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She's not all that great looking, wears too much makeup, and gives off a shiny appearance. EWWEY. I woulda said "fukk you" and took off, within the first few minutes of that!
She's not all that great looking, wears too much makeup, and gives off a shiny appearance. EWWEY. I woulda said "fukk you" and took off, within the first few minutes of that!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Kings_royalty
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Oh man, that was painful to watch.
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Master Don Juan
I hope he enjoyed the rest of his meal.
Watching that now... and seeing that he doesn't like confrontations, what he could have done was said something like: "hey, look over there! that hot guy is checking you out!", and while she's got her head turned, just take the food, stand up, and go sit at another table.
Preferably far away.
Watching that now... and seeing that he doesn't like confrontations, what he could have done was said something like: "hey, look over there! that hot guy is checking you out!", and while she's got her head turned, just take the food, stand up, and go sit at another table.
Preferably far away.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
I'm not sure what he did before the video started but I would have cut that thread off and would have got her laughing. He fuvked it up for himself by logically trying to explain stuff to her. I would have maybe agreed with her about the loser shelter and did some form of roleplaying.Freddy1 said:What do you think would be the best response to her Distant Light????
Her: "I think you should live in a loser shelter"
Me: "wow hold up, i've only known you for xyz and already you're trying to bring me back to you're shelter, I need trust and comfort first."
or
Me: "How did you know. You've been stalking me, yep You've been sitting on my tree and watching me shower. You're the girl who keeps blowing up myself."
Man he could have done anything she threw test after test at that guy and he was just sitting there all serious and ****, what man isn't down for a food fight.
BuckwildNYC
Senior Don Juan
If you noticed, her disrepect was escalating because he wasn't giving her any reaction. I think he played it well. Why stoop to her level of maturity. Be a man and let HER make a fool of herself. There's a saying "never argue with fools because from a distance, no one can tell the difference."
DJinTraining06
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i don't get why u guys are calling this guy an AFC. He handled it perfectly. He let her babble on like an idiot and made her make an idiot of herlself, and he didnt los ehis cool. He seemed like a confident guy to me who could care less wat she thought or at least hid it very well. Besides wat was he gona do at the end throw food back at her? that's infantile and he would just look like the jerk to the whole restaurant.
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^^real talk.....nuff said dunn.....BuckwildNYC said:...Why stoop to her level of maturity. Be a man and let HER make a fool of herself. There's a saying "never argue with fools because from a distance, no one can tell the difference."
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.