"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Almost married for 2 years, but To sum my last 6 months up, recently seperated due to family abuse. Wife attacked me while I was holding our 5 month old at the time. It happened again except I was not holding my son the second time. So abuse keeps on coming up within our home and a lot of it comes from alocohol. That is the reason for our separation. I filed for divorce, we are currently separated but attempting to somehow make it work. During the seperation she admitted to sleeping with other people. When she told me, it literally killed me and made all my trust within her go away. Keep in mind while we were together, I had full trust in her. We have been in and out of the courts for protective orders custody and visitation orders and those are all in place temporarily. She allows me to come over and see our son whenever I want. We spend time together and are actually getting better between us and it seems to be making an uprise. But in my head I still cannot get over the fact that she slept with other people. I want to over look it due to us being separated but I don't know a way to go about that. Any advice would be helpful.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do you wanna make your life easier? If so, go through with the divorce and leave this crazy biatch alone. And oh, by the way: try not to get married next time, will ya? I mean, look around. This is no time for marriage, mate.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Stay calm, think as logically as possible. Get a good lawyer, make a plan and divorce her.

Move on with your life.

-Augustus-
 
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ToughMinded49 said:
Almost married for 2 years, but To sum my last 6 months up, recently seperated due to family abuse. Wife attacked me while I was holding our 5 month old at the time. It happened again except I was not holding my son the second time. So abuse keeps on coming up within our home and a lot of it comes from alocohol. That is the reason for our separation. I filed for divorce, we are currently separated but attempting to somehow make it work. During the seperation she admitted to sleeping with other people. When she told me, it literally killed me and made all my trust within her go away. Keep in mind while we were together, I had full trust in her. We have been in and out of the courts for protective orders custody and visitation orders and those are all in place temporarily. She allows me to come over and see our son whenever I want. We spend time together and are actually getting better between us and it seems to be making an uprise. But in my head I still cannot get over the fact that she slept with other people. I want to over look it due to us being separated but I don't know a way to go about that. Any advice would be helpful.
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She is abusive
She is an alcoholic
She is a cheater.

She is a bad quality woman.

Dude walk away
 
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