"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Almost married for 2 years, but To sum my last 6 months up, recently seperated due to family abuse. Wife attacked me while I was holding our 5 month old at the time. It happened again except I was not holding my son the second time. So abuse keeps on coming up within our home and a lot of it comes from alocohol. That is the reason for our separation. I filed for divorce, we are currently separated but attempting to somehow make it work. During the seperation she admitted to sleeping with other people. When she told me, it literally killed me and made all my trust within her go away. Keep in mind while we were together, I had full trust in her. We have been in and out of the courts for protective orders custody and visitation orders and those are all in place temporarily. She allows me to come over and see our son whenever I want. We spend time together and are actually getting better between us and it seems to be making an uprise. But in my head I still cannot get over the fact that she slept with other people. I want to over look it due to us being separated but I don't know a way to go about that. Any advice would be helpful.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you wanna make your life easier? If so, go through with the divorce and leave this crazy biatch alone. And oh, by the way: try not to get married next time, will ya? I mean, look around. This is no time for marriage, mate.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Stay calm, think as logically as possible. Get a good lawyer, make a plan and divorce her.

Move on with your life.

-Augustus-
 
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ToughMinded49 said:
Almost married for 2 years, but To sum my last 6 months up, recently seperated due to family abuse. Wife attacked me while I was holding our 5 month old at the time. It happened again except I was not holding my son the second time. So abuse keeps on coming up within our home and a lot of it comes from alocohol. That is the reason for our separation. I filed for divorce, we are currently separated but attempting to somehow make it work. During the seperation she admitted to sleeping with other people. When she told me, it literally killed me and made all my trust within her go away. Keep in mind while we were together, I had full trust in her. We have been in and out of the courts for protective orders custody and visitation orders and those are all in place temporarily. She allows me to come over and see our son whenever I want. We spend time together and are actually getting better between us and it seems to be making an uprise. But in my head I still cannot get over the fact that she slept with other people. I want to over look it due to us being separated but I don't know a way to go about that. Any advice would be helpful.
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She is abusive
She is an alcoholic
She is a cheater.

She is a bad quality woman.

Dude walk away
 
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