"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Almost married for 2 years, but To sum my last 6 months up, recently seperated due to family abuse. Wife attacked me while I was holding our 5 month old at the time. It happened again except I was not holding my son the second time. So abuse keeps on coming up within our home and a lot of it comes from alocohol. That is the reason for our separation. I filed for divorce, we are currently separated but attempting to somehow make it work. During the seperation she admitted to sleeping with other people. When she told me, it literally killed me and made all my trust within her go away. Keep in mind while we were together, I had full trust in her. We have been in and out of the courts for protective orders custody and visitation orders and those are all in place temporarily. She allows me to come over and see our son whenever I want. We spend time together and are actually getting better between us and it seems to be making an uprise. But in my head I still cannot get over the fact that she slept with other people. I want to over look it due to us being separated but I don't know a way to go about that. Any advice would be helpful.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you wanna make your life easier? If so, go through with the divorce and leave this crazy biatch alone. And oh, by the way: try not to get married next time, will ya? I mean, look around. This is no time for marriage, mate.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stay calm, think as logically as possible. Get a good lawyer, make a plan and divorce her.

Move on with your life.

-Augustus-
 
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ToughMinded49 said:
Almost married for 2 years, but To sum my last 6 months up, recently seperated due to family abuse. Wife attacked me while I was holding our 5 month old at the time. It happened again except I was not holding my son the second time. So abuse keeps on coming up within our home and a lot of it comes from alocohol. That is the reason for our separation. I filed for divorce, we are currently separated but attempting to somehow make it work. During the seperation she admitted to sleeping with other people. When she told me, it literally killed me and made all my trust within her go away. Keep in mind while we were together, I had full trust in her. We have been in and out of the courts for protective orders custody and visitation orders and those are all in place temporarily. She allows me to come over and see our son whenever I want. We spend time together and are actually getting better between us and it seems to be making an uprise. But in my head I still cannot get over the fact that she slept with other people. I want to over look it due to us being separated but I don't know a way to go about that. Any advice would be helpful.
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She is abusive
She is an alcoholic
She is a cheater.

She is a bad quality woman.

Dude walk away
 
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