Advice on tough situation

[ToughMinded49]

Almost married for 2 years, but To sum my last 6 months up, recently seperated due to family abuse. Wife attacked me while I was holding our 5 month old at the time. It happened again except I was not holding my son the second time. So abuse keeps on coming up within our home and a lot of it comes from alocohol. That is the reason for our separation. I filed for divorce, we are currently separated but attempting to somehow make it work. During the seperation she admitted to sleeping with other people. When she told me, it literally killed me and made all my trust within her go away. Keep in mind while we were together, I had full trust in her. We have been in and out of the courts for protective orders custody and visitation orders and those are all in place temporarily. She allows me to come over and see our son whenever I want. We spend time together and are actually getting better between us and it seems to be making an uprise. But in my head I still cannot get over the fact that she slept with other people. I want to over look it due to us being separated but I don't know a way to go about that. Any advice would be helpful.

 

[Infern0]

DIVORCE HER AND MOVE ON THIS SITUATION IS NOT SALVAGEABLE

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

DIVORCE HER AND MOVE ON THIS SITUATION IS NOT SALVAGEABLE

Nothing further to add to this.

 

[bigneil]

Subtitled: why I'm happy I never got married.

 

[lizardking82]

Do you wanna make your life easier? If so, go through with the divorce and leave this crazy biatch alone. And oh, by the way: try not to get married next time, will ya? I mean, look around. This is no time for marriage, mate.

 

[Augustus_McCrae]

Stay calm, think as logically as possible. Get a good lawyer, make a plan and divorce her.

Move on with your life.

-Augustus-

 

[dude99]

Almost married for 2 years, but To sum my last 6 months up, recently seperated due to family abuse. Wife attacked me while I was holding our 5 month old at the time. It happened again except I was not holding my son the second time. So abuse keeps on coming up within our home and a lot of it comes from alocohol. That is the reason for our separation. I filed for divorce, we are currently separated but attempting to somehow make it work. During the seperation she admitted to sleeping with other people. When she told me, it literally killed me and made all my trust within her go away. Keep in mind while we were together, I had full trust in her. We have been in and out of the courts for protective orders custody and visitation orders and those are all in place temporarily. She allows me to come over and see our son whenever I want. We spend time together and are actually getting better between us and it seems to be making an uprise. But in my head I still cannot get over the fact that she slept with other people. I want to over look it due to us being separated but I don't know a way to go about that. Any advice would be helpful.

She is abusive
She is an alcoholic
She is a cheater.

She is a bad quality woman.

Dude walk away

 

[Initiatedindenial]

This is going to be harsh, but H
her being aggressive was her way of telling you that she despised you.

It will happen again, move on.