Hi. I recently broke up with my gf or 1.5 years. It's been hard on me but I'm getting over it. There is one girl I met last night at a friends. She's 17, ran away from home, about to join the Army. I know I can have a chance with her, I just messed up last night. Had one to many drinks and was very unsocial. I just couldn't know what to talk to her about. I've never met someone in the situation she's in so I had nothing really to say, other than small talk. Any suggestions if I can get to see her again?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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- Thread starter xenten
- Start date
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
MacAvoy
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CAPTAIN SAV A' HOJMooney5115 said:There is one girl I met last night at a friends. She's 17, ran away from home, about to join the Army. I know I can have a chance with her,
MacAvoy
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Reborn said:Ask yourself if that kind of girl is really someone you'd want to have in your life.
But SHE'S HOT. Whether she's a psycho is irrelevant.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
..then you answered your own question.JMooney5115 said:MacAvoy is right on the ball. I'm not looking for a relationship right now. If I were she wouldn't be in the top 20.
what you say to her is really irrelevant. you dont care what she thinks about you or what happens, you are looking for just a good time. tell her that, enjoy yourself, and see what happens.
MacAvoy
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DavenJuan said:what you say to her is really irrelevant. you dont care what she thinks about you or what happens, you are looking for just a good time. tell her that, enjoy yourself, and see what happens.
Great advice.
DavenJuan said:what you say to her is really irrelevant. you dont care what she thinks about you or what happens
That's the missing link that has been in my game. Great advice. I need to put this towards girl as well.