Hi. I recently broke up with my gf or 1.5 years. It's been hard on me but I'm getting over it. There is one girl I met last night at a friends. She's 17, ran away from home, about to join the Army. I know I can have a chance with her, I just messed up last night. Had one to many drinks and was very unsocial. I just couldn't know what to talk to her about. I've never met someone in the situation she's in so I had nothing really to say, other than small talk. Any suggestions if I can get to see her again?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MacAvoy
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CAPTAIN SAV A' HOJMooney5115 said:There is one girl I met last night at a friends. She's 17, ran away from home, about to join the Army. I know I can have a chance with her,
MacAvoy
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Reborn said:Ask yourself if that kind of girl is really someone you'd want to have in your life.
But SHE'S HOT. Whether she's a psycho is irrelevant.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
..then you answered your own question.JMooney5115 said:MacAvoy is right on the ball. I'm not looking for a relationship right now. If I were she wouldn't be in the top 20.
what you say to her is really irrelevant. you dont care what she thinks about you or what happens, you are looking for just a good time. tell her that, enjoy yourself, and see what happens.
MacAvoy
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DavenJuan said:what you say to her is really irrelevant. you dont care what she thinks about you or what happens, you are looking for just a good time. tell her that, enjoy yourself, and see what happens.
Great advice.
DavenJuan said:what you say to her is really irrelevant. you dont care what she thinks about you or what happens
That's the missing link that has been in my game. Great advice. I need to put this towards girl as well.