Hi. I recently broke up with my gf or 1.5 years. It's been hard on me but I'm getting over it. There is one girl I met last night at a friends. She's 17, ran away from home, about to join the Army. I know I can have a chance with her, I just messed up last night. Had one to many drinks and was very unsocial. I just couldn't know what to talk to her about. I've never met someone in the situation she's in so I had nothing really to say, other than small talk. Any suggestions if I can get to see her again?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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- Thread starter xenten
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
MacAvoy
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CAPTAIN SAV A' HOJMooney5115 said:There is one girl I met last night at a friends. She's 17, ran away from home, about to join the Army. I know I can have a chance with her,
MacAvoy
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Reborn said:Ask yourself if that kind of girl is really someone you'd want to have in your life.
But SHE'S HOT. Whether she's a psycho is irrelevant.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
..then you answered your own question.JMooney5115 said:MacAvoy is right on the ball. I'm not looking for a relationship right now. If I were she wouldn't be in the top 20.
what you say to her is really irrelevant. you dont care what she thinks about you or what happens, you are looking for just a good time. tell her that, enjoy yourself, and see what happens.
MacAvoy
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DavenJuan said:what you say to her is really irrelevant. you dont care what she thinks about you or what happens, you are looking for just a good time. tell her that, enjoy yourself, and see what happens.
Great advice.
DavenJuan said:what you say to her is really irrelevant. you dont care what she thinks about you or what happens
That's the missing link that has been in my game. Great advice. I need to put this towards girl as well.