"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
advice for first time ****ing?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Thatfeel21
Senior Don Juan
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
have fun, explore...and thats about it
If your a virgin and shes not (and your embarrased by it\havent told her), have some beers or some wine before you ****, that way you can last looong, and learn more from the experience
Alcohol prolongs fukcing?Ostepop said:How old are you? Do you have reasonable alchohol tolerance?
If your a virgin and shes not (and your embarrased by it\havent told her), have some beers or some wine before you ****, that way you can last looong, and learn more from the experience
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
Depends on the intake, to much alcohol will cause impotence, this has never happend to me so im guessing you have to be really really really really drunk.Alkali said:
If i go to bed with a girl after 4 glasses of whine i can **** the sh*t out of her for hours. I have no idea why this happends, but you definately get fake sexstamina out of alcohol, as long as you dont over do it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
thatguyjamalx
Don Juan
That $hit is hard to live down.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
so you didnt do it yet?
i guess when i read this a while ago i thought you were going to soon. youre just getting info for when it does happen?
just dont worry about it man. sex is natural. if you stress youll screw it up. just throw on some good tunes, take it slow. make your first a special time.
Agreed, it's one of the most natural things humans do...provided the inhibitions are removed. If you focus on what you want out of it, you'll be a LOT less nervous. And from what I've gathered, many women prefer that over the guy who is too worried about pleasing them to get into that natural rythem. Know what pleases a woman.....pay attention to how her body reacts as you go about your business......and make sure she is wet down there.Supremo said:
Cheers!"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
no pun intended