"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
advice for first time ****ing?
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- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Thatfeel21
Senior Don Juan
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
have fun, explore...and thats about it
If your a virgin and shes not (and your embarrased by it\havent told her), have some beers or some wine before you ****, that way you can last looong, and learn more from the experience
Alcohol prolongs fukcing?Ostepop said:How old are you? Do you have reasonable alchohol tolerance?
If your a virgin and shes not (and your embarrased by it\havent told her), have some beers or some wine before you ****, that way you can last looong, and learn more from the experience
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
Depends on the intake, to much alcohol will cause impotence, this has never happend to me so im guessing you have to be really really really really drunk.Alkali said:
If i go to bed with a girl after 4 glasses of whine i can **** the sh*t out of her for hours. I have no idea why this happends, but you definately get fake sexstamina out of alcohol, as long as you dont over do it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
thatguyjamalx
Don Juan
That $hit is hard to live down.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
so you didnt do it yet?
i guess when i read this a while ago i thought you were going to soon. youre just getting info for when it does happen?
just dont worry about it man. sex is natural. if you stress youll screw it up. just throw on some good tunes, take it slow. make your first a special time.
Agreed, it's one of the most natural things humans do...provided the inhibitions are removed. If you focus on what you want out of it, you'll be a LOT less nervous. And from what I've gathered, many women prefer that over the guy who is too worried about pleasing them to get into that natural rythem. Know what pleases a woman.....pay attention to how her body reacts as you go about your business......and make sure she is wet down there.Supremo said:
Cheers!"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
no pun intended