Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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im very skinny, i dont know my body fat percent so if some one can help me out with that thanks, i have a 4 pack when i bend over slightly and flex, and i need help getting the bottom 2 up, cuz i have the 4 but the bottom two are not even there, also i need help for a V cut, i weigh 145lbs , and im 5'8 Thnx
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ectomorph

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a v Cut is a cut from your hips down at an angle toward your thighs, or go to google and look up V cut in google images
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alle_Gory

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So you want feminine hips like an hourglass? I'm going to assume you want a triangular back, broad shoulders coming down to a thinner waist.

This is mostly genetic (your body type) and a result of alot of back work. Deadlifts, chinups, pullups, rows. And of course chest, shoulder... etc. work. Can't have a big back without a big front. Your body won't allow the physiological imbalance.
 

Quiksilver

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Follow the stickies... at 145lbs you're in no shape to have rippling abs and a v cut.

Add another 40lbs of muscle and you'll be fine, especially if your an ectomorph.
 

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lol which of the two says that im 145 and im in no shape to get ripped?? as quicksilver said
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SamMalone

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Why would you want to be ripped at 145? Don't worry about the six pack right now and just concentrate on getting a big, manly body instead. No use on having a six pack on a girls frame.
 

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omg ur right okay forget that imma get a big frame first then imma get my abs thnx
 
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