Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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abs before routine work out? oh no!!!

Dee-Zy

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I was always told to do my abs LAST, but I'm lazy so some time I don't feel like it - or I run out of time.

Is it ok or recommended that I do my abs first before do'N any muscles?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DIESEL

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Originally posted by Dee-Zy
I was always told to do my abs LAST,
Why? You can do your abs first thing or last thing in the workout. If doing them first assures you do it.. then do'em first.
 

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Re: Re: abs before routine work out? oh no!!!

Originally posted by DIESEL
Why? You can do your abs first thing or last thing in the workout. If doing them first assures you do it.. then do'em first.
good enough - now I will ALWAYS start with abs :)
 

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do not do your abs before your squats! u wont have th core stength to maintain your form during these if u whipe your ab muscles out first! jus t atip but do what you want
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I always like to do abs first due to the fact that the rest of the workout I can still fill them working as I do the cardio and whatever exercise I am on!
 

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Originally posted by nunyabiznass
do not do your abs before your squats! u wont have th core stength to maintain your form during these if u whipe your ab muscles out first! jus t atip but do what you want

I agree. Abs first is fine generally, but I wouldn't do them before squats.
 
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Originally posted by nunyabiznass
do not do your abs before your squats! u wont have th core stength to maintain your form during these if u whipe your ab muscles out first! jus t atip but do what you want
lol

yeah - I didn't think of that. I'd destroy my back if I do abs before squats

thx guys
 
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