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abs before routine work out? oh no!!!

Dee-Zy

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I was always told to do my abs LAST, but I'm lazy so some time I don't feel like it - or I run out of time.

Is it ok or recommended that I do my abs first before do'N any muscles?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Dee-Zy
I was always told to do my abs LAST,
Why? You can do your abs first thing or last thing in the workout. If doing them first assures you do it.. then do'em first.
 

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Re: Re: abs before routine work out? oh no!!!

Originally posted by DIESEL
Why? You can do your abs first thing or last thing in the workout. If doing them first assures you do it.. then do'em first.
good enough - now I will ALWAYS start with abs :)
 

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do not do your abs before your squats! u wont have th core stength to maintain your form during these if u whipe your ab muscles out first! jus t atip but do what you want
 

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I always like to do abs first due to the fact that the rest of the workout I can still fill them working as I do the cardio and whatever exercise I am on!
 

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Originally posted by nunyabiznass
do not do your abs before your squats! u wont have th core stength to maintain your form during these if u whipe your ab muscles out first! jus t atip but do what you want

I agree. Abs first is fine generally, but I wouldn't do them before squats.
 
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Originally posted by nunyabiznass
do not do your abs before your squats! u wont have th core stength to maintain your form during these if u whipe your ab muscles out first! jus t atip but do what you want
lol

yeah - I didn't think of that. I'd destroy my back if I do abs before squats

thx guys
 
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