"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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abs before routine work out? oh no!!!

Dee-Zy

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I was always told to do my abs LAST, but I'm lazy so some time I don't feel like it - or I run out of time.

Is it ok or recommended that I do my abs first before do'N any muscles?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DIESEL

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Originally posted by Dee-Zy
I was always told to do my abs LAST,
Why? You can do your abs first thing or last thing in the workout. If doing them first assures you do it.. then do'em first.
 

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Re: Re: abs before routine work out? oh no!!!

Originally posted by DIESEL
Why? You can do your abs first thing or last thing in the workout. If doing them first assures you do it.. then do'em first.
good enough - now I will ALWAYS start with abs :)
 

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do not do your abs before your squats! u wont have th core stength to maintain your form during these if u whipe your ab muscles out first! jus t atip but do what you want
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I always like to do abs first due to the fact that the rest of the workout I can still fill them working as I do the cardio and whatever exercise I am on!
 

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Originally posted by nunyabiznass
do not do your abs before your squats! u wont have th core stength to maintain your form during these if u whipe your ab muscles out first! jus t atip but do what you want

I agree. Abs first is fine generally, but I wouldn't do them before squats.
 
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Originally posted by nunyabiznass
do not do your abs before your squats! u wont have th core stength to maintain your form during these if u whipe your ab muscles out first! jus t atip but do what you want
lol

yeah - I didn't think of that. I'd destroy my back if I do abs before squats

thx guys
 
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