You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Looking good man! :crackup:mrRuckus said:See, here's a picture of me and my awesome abs. http://walledoff.com/files/images/P7047223.preview.JPG
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
wtf are you talking about...San Jose California said:Supposedly for a 6pack you have to get a nice back first, and doing that takes a couple months. After that, the abs take 3 months. So can it really be worth it, 5 months of nonstop working out just to get a 6pack? Not to mention you have to keep working out every 2 days your entire life to keep them.
You are freaking puny. Start eating brahmrRuckus said:Having a good six pack doing nothing but lowering body fat percentage simply isn't true.
Do you have awesome biceps hidden away under fat without training? Triceps? Quads? No, no no. The abs are nothing special, and no one is awed by tiny abs barely peeking out.
See, here's a picture of me and my awesome abs. http://walledoff.com/files/images/P7047223.preview.JPG
You dont need to work out your back or your abs at all to see abs.San Jose California said:fvuckin what?