You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Looking good man! :crackup:mrRuckus said:See, here's a picture of me and my awesome abs. http://walledoff.com/files/images/P7047223.preview.JPG
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
wtf are you talking about...San Jose California said:Supposedly for a 6pack you have to get a nice back first, and doing that takes a couple months. After that, the abs take 3 months. So can it really be worth it, 5 months of nonstop working out just to get a 6pack? Not to mention you have to keep working out every 2 days your entire life to keep them.
You are freaking puny. Start eating brahmrRuckus said:Having a good six pack doing nothing but lowering body fat percentage simply isn't true.
Do you have awesome biceps hidden away under fat without training? Triceps? Quads? No, no no. The abs are nothing special, and no one is awed by tiny abs barely peeking out.
See, here's a picture of me and my awesome abs. http://walledoff.com/files/images/P7047223.preview.JPG
You dont need to work out your back or your abs at all to see abs.San Jose California said:fvuckin what?