"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Abs and arm muscle?

sam2698

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Best ab exercise that I found was the deadlift, you want good arms and and abs. Do some heavy deadlifts for one set for 80 - 120 seconds. For the chest and triceps just bench or try bent press. - Works like a charm.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Having a good six pack doing nothing but lowering body fat percentage simply isn't true.

Do you have awesome biceps hidden away under fat without training? Triceps? Quads? No, no no. The abs are nothing special, and no one is awed by tiny abs barely peeking out.

See, here's a picture of me and my awesome abs. http://walledoff.com/files/images/P7047223.preview.JPG
 

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The only way to get "abs" is to have a very low body fat percentage. Otherwise the fat just covers your abs.
 

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Want to know something really funny? I don't do any direct arm work exercises at all. No bicep or tricep exercises. I however do, do every manner of compound exercise for the bodypart i'm working on that day though and it just so happens my arms have almost the same amount of definition and size as a gym goer like myself who does isolated arm exercises religiously.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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San Jose California said:
Supposedly for a 6pack you have to get a nice back first, and doing that takes a couple months. After that, the abs take 3 months. So can it really be worth it, 5 months of nonstop working out just to get a 6pack? Not to mention you have to keep working out every 2 days your entire life to keep them.
wtf are you talking about...

Abs are made in the kitchen, not the gym. If you have low bodyfat, you will get abs.
 

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mrRuckus said:
Having a good six pack doing nothing but lowering body fat percentage simply isn't true.

Do you have awesome biceps hidden away under fat without training? Triceps? Quads? No, no no. The abs are nothing special, and no one is awed by tiny abs barely peeking out.

See, here's a picture of me and my awesome abs. http://walledoff.com/files/images/P7047223.preview.JPG
You are freaking puny. Start eating brah
 

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I thought this thread was over. Abs= Training them with HEAVY weights and having a low body fat %.... whats so confusing?
 

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San Jose California said:
fvuckin what?
You dont need to work out your back or your abs at all to see abs.

Its all based on low bodyfat. Sure, being 120lbs at 8% bf, your gonna have abs, but you will still look like a little girl.
 
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