i was just wondering if you think dressing well all the time is really the type of thing a man who "doesn't give a damn" would do, or any type of real alpha male would do for that matter. When i envision the biggest badasses i know or read about, such as hunter s. thompson, dress shirts and nice shoes don't always come to mind. I'm not saying being a slob is the way to go, but i just don't get how "accessorizing" (sp.?), and putting lots of time and effort into looking fashionable goes with being a real man. I used to wear pajamas and white t-shirts all the time during the school year, and plenty of girls noticed how i just didn't give a ****, and i could honestly see their faces fill with curiousity and attraction whenever they mentioned my clothing. Hell, one day i came in looking good and this babe asked me where the hell my pajamas were in a disappointed tone of voice. Well, does anybody have any opinions on this?