"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
a woman that cant make up her mind.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Unbridled_Phoenix
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theunflushables
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Yes you do. If you havent done so already, do it now.Blown5.0 said:
If you dont speak to her in any other way, she will start using facebook to jab at you. Status updates, wall posts, etc. all will become ways she can use to either lure you back in or tear you down. Do it for your sanity.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
i haven't seen or spoken to this chick in about 2 months...
i have heard from multiple people...she has been talking major **** about me...for unknown reasons, but she also has been talking to a good friend of mine...saying that i was a good guy and other good things about me BUT...that she made it clear of our relationship...that "I" just miss understood....I guess shes just trying to play it off...
last week...she asked me to come over to her place..that it had been awhile and she wanted to see me. I said no i was busy maybe some other time...she responded back pretty quick saying that she changed her mind that she was gonna have a party ( that never happened ) and i should come meet the new guy.....
is this just straight up BPD....trying to make me jealous..what?
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Blown5.0 said:
Either bat**** crazy or BPD. Not much difference IMO. Best solution is to get two really hot chicks to go over with you. Tell them to play it up with the touching and flirting so she'll leave you alone and bounce early with them. That will mess her up so bad. Then just go cold on her. Totally cold. Leave it simmer for weeks. If she can play these games then you can to, at least that's my take on it. Just know that nothing will ever happen between the two of you besides drama like this. There's no relationship material there
penkitten
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this sort of drama is going to kill all your brain cells.
all of them.
every last one of them.
until you can no longer function without the drama on a daily basis.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
apparently " shenanigans " is her word... other people aren't allowed to use it...lmao
that just tells me...she still checks up on me...and gets jealous...am i wrong?
sodbuster
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ive been having no contact with her...now shes resorted to hitting on a good friend of mine...on facebook. I doubt my friend would do anything with her...but still it hits a nerve!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.