"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
a woman that cant make up her mind.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Yes you do. If you havent done so already, do it now.Blown5.0 said:
If you dont speak to her in any other way, she will start using facebook to jab at you. Status updates, wall posts, etc. all will become ways she can use to either lure you back in or tear you down. Do it for your sanity.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
i haven't seen or spoken to this chick in about 2 months...
i have heard from multiple people...she has been talking major **** about me...for unknown reasons, but she also has been talking to a good friend of mine...saying that i was a good guy and other good things about me BUT...that she made it clear of our relationship...that "I" just miss understood....I guess shes just trying to play it off...
last week...she asked me to come over to her place..that it had been awhile and she wanted to see me. I said no i was busy maybe some other time...she responded back pretty quick saying that she changed her mind that she was gonna have a party ( that never happened ) and i should come meet the new guy.....
is this just straight up BPD....trying to make me jealous..what?
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Blown5.0 said:
Either bat**** crazy or BPD. Not much difference IMO. Best solution is to get two really hot chicks to go over with you. Tell them to play it up with the touching and flirting so she'll leave you alone and bounce early with them. That will mess her up so bad. Then just go cold on her. Totally cold. Leave it simmer for weeks. If she can play these games then you can to, at least that's my take on it. Just know that nothing will ever happen between the two of you besides drama like this. There's no relationship material there
penkitten
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this sort of drama is going to kill all your brain cells.
all of them.
every last one of them.
until you can no longer function without the drama on a daily basis.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
apparently " shenanigans " is her word... other people aren't allowed to use it...lmao
that just tells me...she still checks up on me...and gets jealous...am i wrong?
sodbuster
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ive been having no contact with her...now shes resorted to hitting on a good friend of mine...on facebook. I doubt my friend would do anything with her...but still it hits a nerve!
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.