Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
yh i know the sound is bad I tried to use a filter but it ddidnt do alot.Sounds like a squadron of Blackhawk helicopters outside your room. They coming to get you?
You strike me as somebody upset with my success because you think you deserve to be rewarded for being "nice" by advocating for being monogamous, so when you see me getting those results WITHOUT being monogamous, you're trying to impose your beliefs on me so you have some moral high ground.@kavi
For sure I am gonna be telling any women I marry I expect them to bring me other women to fck cos if I am a good husband who made them happy why shoudnt I be fcking more women than some players out there. They need to make sure I am fcking the most women If I am the best guy who made them happy. If I am the best guy and I am not fkcing the most women then sex can have no value then I will simply not indugle in sex or romance with my wive(s)
Obviously I expect that. Why would I allow my wifes friend group to be fcking wigh loser guys like you, oh yh also i didnt tell you I have a big D and very good in bed so there is no reason for females to be ffing other guysYou think that if you were to get married, your reward for being such a "good husband" is that your wife will bring you other women to f***, while she stays loyal. You think that by being this "amazing alpha male" of a man, you are entitled to have the security of a committed relationship, while ALSO having the freedom to sleep around and make up for all those opportunities you lost by being monogamous.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I dont wtf your talking about I get serious attention from females of all races esp white ones. Yh my speech is kinda messed up tbh I will admit that but again these things dont rally cause a problem, also im not in the habit of public speaking or video making so ofcrouse i caan improve that.OMG?? This is the fool that was spewing out all this nonsense?
I couldn't make out 90% of what he was saying, not from the poor sound quality but because he sounds like someone with a speech impediment sucking on throat lozenges.
Kavi, most people around here are looking to improve themselves and learn from experienced PUA's, but you come here trying to lay down the law with little to substantiate.
On top of that, you look like a nerdy middle aged curry shop owner that can't find a date. I seriously wonder the level of females you attract.
A little humility would go a long way for you..... a long way.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Stop NOW or we will drive you into the sea!!!I made it 11 minutes and 26 seconds in before I gave up due to poor sound quality and the fact that you end every other phrase with "yeah" or "innit yeah".
Anyway, I think I understand your frustration, and believe this quote is particularly telling:
You strike me as somebody upset with my success because you think you deserve to be rewarded for being "nice" by advocating for being monogamous, so when you see me getting those results WITHOUT being monogamous, you're trying to impose your beliefs on me so you have some moral high ground.
But as that quote shows, you don't even adhere to your beliefs. You think that if you were to get married, your reward for being such a "good husband" is that your wife will bring you other women to f***, while she stays loyal. You think that by being this "amazing alpha male" of a man, you are entitled to have the security of a committed relationship, while ALSO having the freedom to sleep around and make up for all those opportunities you lost by being monogamous.
You're trying to be a good person because you think it'll get you into "heaven", and not because you're actually a good person.
You also seem to hold a much higher opinion of yourself than what's being verified by reality. I did when I was younger. But the difference between you and me is that upon realizing that, I made conscious decisions to improve and bring my reality more in line with my perception. Meanwhile, you choose to disdain others and cry out against the system, rather than bringing yourself up to meet the world's standards.
Because, simply put, if you were as great as you claim to be, you would be getting laid more - and certainly wouldn't be complaining about somebody else who is.