I made it 11 minutes and 26 seconds in before I gave up due to poor sound quality and the fact that you end every other phrase with "yeah" or "innit yeah".
Anyway, I think I understand your frustration, and believe this quote is particularly telling:
@kavi
For sure I am gonna be telling any women I marry I expect them to bring me other women to fck cos if I am a good husband who made them happy why shoudnt I be fcking more women than some players out there. They need to make sure I am fcking the most women If I am the best guy who made them happy. If I am the best guy and I am not fkcing the most women then sex can have no value then I will simply not indugle in sex or romance with my wive(s)
You strike me as somebody upset with my success because you think you deserve to be rewarded for being "nice" by advocating for being monogamous, so when you see me getting those results WITHOUT being monogamous, you're trying to impose your beliefs on me so you have some moral high ground.
But as that quote shows, you don't even adhere to your beliefs. You think that if you were to get married, your reward for being such a "good husband" is that your wife will bring you other women to f***, while she stays loyal. You think that by being this "amazing alpha male" of a man, you are entitled to have the security of a committed relationship, while ALSO having the freedom to sleep around and make up for all those opportunities you lost by being monogamous.
You're trying to be a good person because you think it'll get you into "heaven", and not because you're actually a good person.
You also seem to hold a much higher opinion of yourself than what's being verified by reality. I did when I was younger. But the difference between you and me is that upon realizing that, I made conscious decisions to improve and bring my reality more in line with my perception. Meanwhile, you choose to disdain others and cry out against the system, rather than bringing yourself up to meet the world's standards.
Because, simply put, if you were as great as you claim to be, you would be getting laid more - and certainly wouldn't be complaining about somebody else who is.