Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A video about the PIMP/Social Game I have developed so far

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I sent this to my friend if he or anyone wants to work with me, could be of interest to others here.

 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sounds like a squadron of Blackhawk helicopters outside your room. They coming to get you?
yh i know the sound is bad I tried to use a filter but it ddidnt do alot.
 

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I made it 11 minutes and 26 seconds in before I gave up due to poor sound quality and the fact that you end every other phrase with "yeah" or "innit yeah".

Anyway, I think I understand your frustration, and believe this quote is particularly telling:
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For sure I am gonna be telling any women I marry I expect them to bring me other women to fck cos if I am a good husband who made them happy why shoudnt I be fcking more women than some players out there. They need to make sure I am fcking the most women If I am the best guy who made them happy. If I am the best guy and I am not fkcing the most women then sex can have no value then I will simply not indugle in sex or romance with my wive(s)
You strike me as somebody upset with my success because you think you deserve to be rewarded for being "nice" by advocating for being monogamous, so when you see me getting those results WITHOUT being monogamous, you're trying to impose your beliefs on me so you have some moral high ground.

But as that quote shows, you don't even adhere to your beliefs. You think that if you were to get married, your reward for being such a "good husband" is that your wife will bring you other women to f***, while she stays loyal. You think that by being this "amazing alpha male" of a man, you are entitled to have the security of a committed relationship, while ALSO having the freedom to sleep around and make up for all those opportunities you lost by being monogamous.

You're trying to be a good person because you think it'll get you into "heaven", and not because you're actually a good person.

You also seem to hold a much higher opinion of yourself than what's being verified by reality. I did when I was younger. But the difference between you and me is that upon realizing that, I made conscious decisions to improve and bring my reality more in line with my perception. Meanwhile, you choose to disdain others and cry out against the system, rather than bringing yourself up to meet the world's standards.

Because, simply put, if you were as great as you claim to be, you would be getting laid more - and certainly wouldn't be complaining about somebody else who is.
 

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You think that if you were to get married, your reward for being such a "good husband" is that your wife will bring you other women to f***, while she stays loyal. You think that by being this "amazing alpha male" of a man, you are entitled to have the security of a committed relationship, while ALSO having the freedom to sleep around and make up for all those opportunities you lost by being monogamous.
Obviously I expect that. Why would I allow my wifes friend group to be fcking wigh loser guys like you, oh yh also i didnt tell you I have a big D and very good in bed so there is no reason for females to be ffing other guys
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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OMG?? This is the fool that was spewing out all this nonsense?
I couldn't make out 90% of what he was saying, not from the poor sound quality but because he sounds like someone with a speech impediment sucking on throat lozenges.

Kavi, most people around here are looking to improve themselves and learn from experienced PUA's, but you come here trying to lay down the law with little to substantiate.
On top of that, you look like a nerdy middle aged curry shop owner that can't find a date. I seriously wonder the level of females you attract.

A little humility would go a long way for you..... a long way.
 

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OMG?? This is the fool that was spewing out all this nonsense?
I couldn't make out 90% of what he was saying, not from the poor sound quality but because he sounds like someone with a speech impediment sucking on throat lozenges.

Kavi, most people around here are looking to improve themselves and learn from experienced PUA's, but you come here trying to lay down the law with little to substantiate.
On top of that, you look like a nerdy middle aged curry shop owner that can't find a date. I seriously wonder the level of females you attract.

A little humility would go a long way for you..... a long way.
I dont wtf your talking about I get serious attention from females of all races esp white ones. Yh my speech is kinda messed up tbh I will admit that but again these things dont rally cause a problem, also im not in the habit of public speaking or video making so ofcrouse i caan improve that.

Alot of guys dont think im the type of guy that women like ie my highschool friends etc until women starrt telling them im the hottest guy in the group, they normally think its the taller bigger guy or whatever but I rarely find myself outshone as I mentioned one time I was working at an event where there were male models and for sure I noteiced most the females looking my way not the models.

Im gonna ignore the curry comment because icba
 

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And also IRL females do think im rally manly and alpha or something I mean by how I look befire I talk or act idk i think its my facial features or something but like many women even hot white girls sort of expect some kinda higher masculinity from me.

Like I know I have deeo brow, sqaure chin, forward jaw etc,idk its weird how females look at me and even make commentes like i am supposed to know deep stuff about masculinity or being a man or something.
 

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I know how females see me. Not the best provider beta. Not the guy to sleep with casually. But like a status guy and the type of guy other girls would be most impressed by if any girl had me. Like a major status symbol or something, like all girls know I am and every girl knows this when they see me. Even in the street they pass me by, more young women play with their hair, the exact moment they pass me, than not. And sometimes look up in surprse and awe if just saw right there and then.

And one time a homo told me Im hot, im not into that, but I told him "Your people see me as a celebrity"
 

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Man, those eyes :oops:
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I made it 11 minutes and 26 seconds in before I gave up due to poor sound quality and the fact that you end every other phrase with "yeah" or "innit yeah".

Anyway, I think I understand your frustration, and believe this quote is particularly telling:


You strike me as somebody upset with my success because you think you deserve to be rewarded for being "nice" by advocating for being monogamous, so when you see me getting those results WITHOUT being monogamous, you're trying to impose your beliefs on me so you have some moral high ground.

But as that quote shows, you don't even adhere to your beliefs. You think that if you were to get married, your reward for being such a "good husband" is that your wife will bring you other women to f***, while she stays loyal. You think that by being this "amazing alpha male" of a man, you are entitled to have the security of a committed relationship, while ALSO having the freedom to sleep around and make up for all those opportunities you lost by being monogamous.

You're trying to be a good person because you think it'll get you into "heaven", and not because you're actually a good person.

You also seem to hold a much higher opinion of yourself than what's being verified by reality. I did when I was younger. But the difference between you and me is that upon realizing that, I made conscious decisions to improve and bring my reality more in line with my perception. Meanwhile, you choose to disdain others and cry out against the system, rather than bringing yourself up to meet the world's standards.

Because, simply put, if you were as great as you claim to be, you would be getting laid more - and certainly wouldn't be complaining about somebody else who is.
Stop NOW or we will drive you into the sea!!!

We are watching you

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