You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thats what makes you good, you could read all you want, but until you practice your nothing. Its like any sport... :rockon:Originally posted by DJ de Florida
Put the stuff into action.
its like, driving a car.Originally posted by jiza101
Thats what makes you good, you could read all you want, but until you practice your nothing. Its like any sport... :rockon:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
glad to see that you are back. Give us some bits of wisdom for us to read. I am interested in some stuff that you learned since you left the site. Glad to see an oldy coming backOriginally posted by DJ de Florida
I haven't posted here for over two years. Just wanted to say hi to all the old Don Juans still around. I still single and having fun.
To the new, young guys: Don't just read and think about this stuff on the website. Put the stuff into action.